Long Distance. Why my girlfriend Asked to see my penis but won't show her vagina?

Question

So I've been dating a girl for a few months and we'll meet in person for the first time in July. I know everything about her. First name, last name, address, phone number. We video chat daily and spend hours on the phone. She is one of the kindest, sweetest, most honest and thoughtful people I've ever met. Early in our relationship we were talking dirty on video chat and she asked if she can see... it.

I initially refused, telling her that I don't like to send first because I've had women take what they wanted without giving in return before. She said she understood but as the dirty talk intensified she continuously kept asking. Finally I showed her but she refused to show me hers. She did briefly show me her boobs on a few occasions but even that was something I had to really work hard for. Obviously I was highly upset about this and after a few weeks she finally agreed that she'd show me. She said I'd have to be patient though because she ordered us some toys that we can control via wifi from distance. She showed them to me as well and unboxed them right in front of me when they arrived. However after a few weeks she revealed to me that she chickened out and never even sent mine.

She said she feels uncomfortable doing it over the internet (even though she already saw my penis and showed me her boobs before) and even though I have a huge following as I'm an online influencer and work as a content creator. In other words, it's significantly more risky for me than her. It's strange to me because this is literally the only selfish thing she has ever done. She is obsessively selfless and thoughtful about EVERYTHING. Constantly going out of her way to make me feel happy and comfortable in every situation but this in particular... she just won't do. I've even asked her if she's self-conscious about how she looks down there and she said no. Just the thought of doing it over the internet bothers her (even though she showed her boobs already). What should I do?

TheMajesticKing777 · Accepted Answer

Bruh I really hope she didn't hustle you, if you are a big influence there's always a possibility she might have just fooled you for nudes, believe it or not because of your "big influence" your nudes have more value than hers because of your following, she can sell, show or share these and no matter how hard you stress about it, it's too late, but look on the bright side, keep talking to her and see what happens, if she keeps acting shady then she's playing you, don't overthink or over react cause these aren't facts, she might actually just be a shy chick that chickened out, you'll know when the time comes.

Carolus · Accepted Answer

What are your options? If she’s perfect in all other ways, is it lesser than your urge to see her pussy? Females are naturally selfish and nothing to be mad about, she will slap you but you can’t hit her for example, relationship survival is all about compromises, can you get over this? What is more important to you, the relationship or the pussy?

RealMarek · Answer

Some people just can’t bring themselves to be naked online. You’ll just have to wait until you are in person and see if she’ll show you then. July is a long time from now. Any chance you can meet her sooner?