Has there ever been a point in your life when you've questioned your sexuality?

I'll admit I flip flopped a lot in highschool, those were confusing times.
Has there ever been a point in your life when youve questioned your sexuality?
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  • Women tend to be way more fluid/open with their sexuality. I theorize that every female is actually, naturally bisexual. The only thing stopping them from not being with another woman is the fact that we still stigmatize same-sex relationships. I just have no proof to support this idea. But every woman I've met would not mind sitting on another woman's face despite claiming to be heterosexual, especially if she is more sexually dominant of a person. The same idea does not apply for the heterosexual men I've met.

    The only time I've questioned my sexuality is when I saw futanari artwork on the internet.

    • I once had that thought. All females being bi. That's simply not true.

  • Not too much although lately I've thought about how i would be ok dating a trans girl if she was very feminine and had a girly voice.

    thats about as far as ill go

    • thanks for the heads up ill be looking for it too

    • Thank you

    • i see the 'all women are bi/lesbian' troll again.

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  • Ngl I’m boy crazy and love guys BUT I’ve dated girls in my past and had some experiences but I realized it’s more just for fun when it comes to women, I feel more emotionally, mentally, physically connected with guys. It’s so confusing but I also get turned on by girls and I did enjoy the kissing and stuff I did with them too but nothing is like a man pleasing me you know? I support lgbt still more than anything. I guess I’m just bi curious or something or maybe I’m just a straight girl who admires women?

  • In all honesty, I did during my late teens to early 20s. My friends thought I wasn't attracted to guys because I never had sex, or kissed a guy, never had a feeling to say, " I'm turned on by his looks or body " so they clearly said I must be attracted to girls, I thought about it but I never experienced it, I just knew that wasn't the case either. But I do know now I'm attracted to guys I just don't really care for the sexual stuff I guess.

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  • No.
    I never had a sexual attraction to women. I admit, I think there are tons of beautiful women out there and who have great bodies, but I have absolutely no desire to do anything remotely romantic or sexual with them.

    • That's absolutely amazing, never seen something like that before.

    • You’ve never seen a straight woman?

    • Never seen a woman who has no sexual attraction to women.

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  • Slightly questioning few months ago.

    • Bisexual

    • If it's the default, how come only after 37 years I felt something diferent? Women appreciate other women, physically. That doesn't make all women bisexual on the get go.

    • If you say so since you're a woman.

  • Yes. I eventually decided to stop using labels and just do whatever I liked.

  • No I've known exactly who I am since I could ever remember since I was rolling around in the dirt but what's really weird is I know two girls that both said did they were lesbians and then like 2 months later said they were straight again that one of them has a daughter and she's like six foot one beautiful just super beautiful girl she's questioning herself now and I think you just have to let your kids or the person that you know go through this and let them figure it out

  • Yes. I know I’m pan now though

    • When did I say I was lesbian?

    • I’ve been pan for 2 years now. I only remember saying I’m bi and that’s because bi women have less stigma as opposed to pansexual women

    • You created a new account, I remember you said you were a lesbian in your old pink account. I suspect you are a fake troll account

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  • nope

  • There were times when I hated men (due to bad relationships and other reasons) that I preferred women. It was temporary though.

    • So you’re a level 1 commenting on all womens answers accusing us of all being bi. I recall someone saying another with your creepy answers did the same thing before. Are you a former member hiding under yet another profile? Creepy, pathetic, perverted. Ya that’s you and that’s far worse than anyone being bi or lesbian. (Actually nothing wrong with being bi or lesbian but anyway.. )

    • You can get over yourself. Your viewpoint is irrelevant to me. Have a nice day! 😁

    • There goes that "creep" shaming again 🤡.

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  • All the time. Even now I often do.

    • @Jifa69 No, most women are not bisexual.

    • @Jifa69 Most women are straight, just as most men are.

    • @Jifa69 Most women are straight.

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  • Nope tbh that within it's self confuses me since if one cannot chose what to be then it should be just a built thing into them of what there into.
    It's like if I cannot chose to be gay then of course I would never have gay thoughts. So people who do have such thoughts I am like hm... probably that then.

  • My best friend and I were me (14) and him (12) were in his Recreation room, playing ping pong, and while sitting on the floor, afterward, he unzipped his pants and took out his erect penis, and was stroking it and he asked me to 'take yours out".
    I panicked and ran up the stairs, and home, and we never talked about it.

  • I questioned if I was worthy of getting laid.

  • Honestly I never questioned my sexuality, in spite of a few very occasional contacts with gay friends (jerking together stuff) when I was young. Sure I was shy, but I have always, and since a very young age, only been interested in women.

  • No. Back in the 80s and 90s it was pretty much unheard of. There were closeted and open homosexuals, but vanishingly few people were confused about their gender. Girls in their early teens would sometimes be curious about women’s bodies to the point of attraction, but this was viewed as a normal and temporary stage for straight women.

  • I've heard that both females and males in their teenage years go through Bisexual stages of their life

  • Only when I'm not getting any... which is nearly all the time.

  • Not once.

  • Yes, many times. I just came to the conclusion that I must be Bisexual

  • Yes, my sexuality was always confusing growing up.
    around 12 years old is when I started realizing that I liked men. And for years I considered myself to be gay because I knew I couldn’t imagine myself having feelings for a woman. I would look at girls and be like “oh she’s cute” but I knew I wouldn’t date them.

    I think around the age of 17, i started questioning if I was bisexual rather than gay. I was sexually attracted to women but I still knew I wouldn’t date them. It was confusing because if I called myself gay it would be a lie because I’m attracted to men and women. But if I called myself bisexual it would also be a lie because I only date men.

    so after doing some research I’ve learned that your emotional attraction can be different than your sexual attraction and there is a sexuality that was made just for meee. technically I’m a homoromantic bisexual.

    • Strange how life works like that. Be sure to always follow your heart and stay loyal to the partner of your choosing. Lust is come and go, here and there changes expires, needs novelty and escalation. Its no way to have a relationship in the long term.

  • The only time I have ever seriously thought about girls in a non-platonic way was in middle school when I was like 12-13. After I got over that phase, I was only interested in being with guys and it's been that way ever since.

    • Were you like sexually attracted to women when you were 13?

  • Definitely not. I know what I want, and have since I started liking girls

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