If you found out the girl you're dating was a camgirl in the past would you dump her?

I'm curious and like if you say no what if it was only for a little bit
If you found out the girl youre dating was a camgirl in the past would you dump her?
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honestly a lot more people are saying no then I would have though
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  • It's quite intriguing actually and much safer than other forms of generating income using your body. It's hard to see the harm in it.

    Someone who is proud of their body showing it to others who love to see bodies to be proud of... for someone who might need the money, it seems like a win-win to me :)

    If you found out the girl you're dating was a camgirl in the past would you dump her?If you found out the girl you're dating was a camgirl in the past would you dump her?If you found out the girl you're dating was a camgirl in the past would you dump her?If you found out the girl you're dating was a camgirl in the past would you dump her?
    • The only things I didn't like about it was like when the word was getting around and there are some scary people involved with that kind of stuff. But yeah it is nice to show off your body and was good money 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • OK, I didn't know that. Is there a way to do it without showing your face for privacy concerns then? Did you stop because you got worried about your safety?

    • You can do it without showing your face but like you'd get way less attention. And that was one of the reasons I stopped yeah

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  • I guess it would depend. I don't have a problem with the fact alone that she did it. But If there are other signs that she might not have respect for herself or her body or how her actions affect others it can be a problem to me.

    Probably if she was willing to tell me herself I'd be OK with it. If I found out myself, it would depend on how she reacts to me confronting her. Whether she acts like it's nothing or not.

    Cuz if she just starts going off about how it's empowering and there's nothing wrong with it bla bla, then I know where her heads at. She's not thinking about kids or how my life might change when people around me find out that they can find naked pictures of the woman who might one day be my wife.

    If she acts like it's a big deal. Like a situation that has weight to it then it's all good and I feel like I have a dependable partner who is secure with herself and has respect for how her actions affect her family.

    • Yeah that's one thing I fear a lot is if I have a family then people start to find those videos/pictures I hate thinking about it tbh 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • You'll deal with that as a family. Everyone has their challenges. If you find someone who loves you, and you build confidence in your kid, I'm sure it will be alright

    • I hope

  • Not really overly interested in a persons past, as long as it does not impact the present and the relationship.

    People do loads of stuff at times and don’t think of if it will cause issues later in life.

    One of the reasons it does not is the following.

    You could be with someone, deeply in love with them married for 50 years, eventually at the age of 90 your loving with and grandma to your grandkids dies.

    when going through her things you find out she once did a cam girl slot with a friend when she was 19 before you met her.

    Does that in anywhere change the life you had together?

    • You said this perfectly I think like people do a lot of other stuff that they dont think could affect them too. And exactly like I dont understand how it could like stop someone from loving someone else just bc they would find that out it shouldn't change anything 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @zaharuh thank you. For me it is not much different to having had a kinky lifestyle and then marrying a more conservative vanilla person. It does not change the person they are in love with.

    • So true

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  • I think it depends on what your looking for in a relationship.
    If I was a guy, I would date her but she wouldn't be long-term relationship material. Because my parents still plays an important role in my life. I know my parents would disapprove of her.

    Besides, don't sex workers usually hate men? Don't they view men as a way to get money?

    • That's fair ig ik how some families can be but it doesn't mean a girl can't be relationship material 😕 They dont hate men lol I've never really heard that before

    • Tony Robbins says that we all have stories we tell ourselves. Our circumstances reveal ourselves. I would like to know what stories she is telling herself that makes her do what she does.

    • Like wym what stories she tells herself

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  • It's hard to answer this without coming off as a hypocrite. I've talked to women and spent time in many chatrooms. I haven't had many negative experiences and if things do feel off I go to a chatroom. Some people will judge you based on having done this, but if they do then they are not the one for you. When two people truly love each other an important part of that is being able to accept the other person for who they once were, who they've become and who their growing to be. That being said I would date a cam girl.

    • Ik if people judge me then they aren't for me but a lot of people are judging me tho and some are for reasons I dont understand 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • Even if you spent times in chat rooms realize you were doing it because these sluts were available to help you get off, these aren't girls to bring home to your family, they're to help you please yourself

  • I'd evaluate the situation, pray, and go from there. Seeing if she continues in her ways, and has no desire to change, and work our how to handle the situation. Since, dating a girl who has already adopted these promiscuous and harlot-esq habits and has no desire to change them wouldn't be a good idea for me to do. Not just for the sake that she'd set herself up to be possibly tempted to cheat, but for other reasons. Such as being around her and her issues coming to the surface.

    • Wym she would set herself up to possibly cheat

    • The temptation of sexual deviance would already be there, and could tempt her to cheat since she's already gotten into that deviance.

    • So pretty much if it's just a thing of the past its okay?

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  • No I doubt many would. A cam girl isn't much more than a girl who doesn't mind getting naked in front of others

    • It's a bit more then that I think lol but ik what you mean

  • If all she did was show off her body or even masturbate, I wouldn't have a problem. I might admire her entrepreneurship, comfort with and confidence in her own body, sexiness, and libido. That wouldn't preclude her from being capable of monogamous relationship.

    It would be a different story if she had sex with others on camera. That would be kind of nasty and slutty in my eyes.

    • I'm just curious why it's so much different if she had sex lol

    • I really don't know why that would make a difference to me. I mean, I don't care if my partners had previous relationships. In fact, I expect people to have had relationships. But having actual sex on camera would put her in the porn star category. It just seems promiscuous or like being a prostitute. Kind of icky to me. I see a big difference between prostitution and merely showing off alone on-line. I mean, showing off, to me, is little different than proudly strutting your stuff at the beach or by a pool in a bikini.

    • Ig yeah but it's the same thing to me if it's just on stream, porn stars are still completely different and go through a lot crazier stuff

  • If she has to stoop that low to get attention and/or make money then she has no business being with someone like me. There are plenty of modest girls out there to choose from.

    • Okay but what if things were going good between you then you found that out

    • There are too many good girls to give any attention to a slut like this

    • That would be difficult and a harder choice than if you found out right away, that is true. I guess it would depend on how she behaves in the present. If she was full of regrets and changed her behavior then I might forgive it and see how things go. I've known about girls who turned their lives into a completely different and positive direction after their period of being a camgirl. So, it can happen.

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  • I would dump her if she still had an interest in doing sex work. But I wouldn't dump her if she left it in the past and regretted it, and decided she didn't want to do such degrading work again.

    • That's fair :)

  • When I get in a relationship it has nothing to do with the past from the moment we get into the relationship that's where it starts I'm not going to judge her I'm not going to be pissed off and dirt I'm not going to do anything except for being in that relationship I might ask her about it but it's done and it's over with nobody can change it so why even take it there it is what it is today's our relationship started it will go as far as we allow it to

  • Not at all. Our past is our past.

  • No way. This information makes her even more attractive. I'm drawn to a girl who is comfortable with herself and there's almost nothing sexier than an aggressive girl who's not afraid to make a move. I also have great respect for the girl who isn't afraid to cash in on very men who traditionally have exploited and or objectified women and will inevitably continue their behavior. In my opinion the stigma surrounding sexwork of any kind is unacceptable. We should be slut supporting not slut shaming. It's a shame that men actually believe that they deserve women in the first place while in reality any of us would be lucky to be tolerated by even the trashiest sex worker. Personally I'd encourage any girl I know to cam rather than traditional stripping. Far safer and less being groped. If I thought I'd be successful I'd do it myself.

    • That's nice :)

  • Yes. I would not be okay with the knowledge that my girlfriend exposed herself, and did sexual things on camera to get money and attention from complete strangers. That sort of thing is crossing a line in my opinion, and I unfortunately can't respect anyone who does it.

    • You can't respect them even if its it in the past?

    • There is no reason to respect someone that doesn't respect themself

  • Instant dump. Adios.

  • I'm not interested in people who have degraded themselves for money now or in the past.

  • Yes. It would be too optomistic to think she would make a good mom for my kids. Plus I don't want other kids making fun of my childs mom because she was a sex worker. Anything online is forever

    • I dont understand why they couldn't be a good mom but I get the thought of other people finding out and stuff I hate that too.. and yeah online stuff is forever

    • Anyone that values themselves isn't going to need that type of external attention from people online. Moms need to have good values. Wouldn't want her to tell our daughter or son it's OK to do that online just to make herself feel better

    • It wasn't only about attention and like I would not encourage anyone to get into that stuff I regret doing it 🤦🏻‍♀️

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  • 90% yes unless she is amazing as a person.


    But it would never happen to me anyway since I was cursed with high dht androgen sensitive hair follicles.

  • Of course not. I wouldn't care if she were still doing it. Don't worry about this. You don't want to date a man who cares about it.

  • I would definitely not dump her, if she's comfortable with her body, why can't she share it? She's also making money doing it. Win win situation if you ask me

  • Yes... instantly.
    No way she would have been my girlfriend or wife when she has already sold her inti. ate access and knowledge to thousands of men.

    • Even if it was only one 20 second video...5 years prior. You do porn... she is forever tainted as far as being a romantic match. Cannot take that back.

    • Okay but like why does that make her not a good romantic match anymore like what if everything was going good between you ik you can't take stuff back on the internet but like people change

  • Wow, I hope not 😉

    • Same lol

  • Only if I get to interrupt the stream just to screw with the viewers.

    • Lmao

  • I don't see why that would be an issue. If it is, than ask her before things get too serious between you two.
    You may want to change the abbreviation for cam-girl. I thought I was reading "camp-girl" like girl scouts or brownies.

    • Lmao you might be the only one that thought that ngl

    • Maybe 😏😂

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