Do guys feel embarrassed for a girl to see their dick after they've cum?

Question

I'm just asking cause I remember once a guy I used to fuck would tell me he just came & when I asked if I could see, he would just have his hand over his dick covering it saying 'nah but like I came so much' & I was confused as to why he would want to cover that cause I would have loved to have seen that, as I think most girls would.

I talked to a guy friend about this & he told me that he was probably just embarrassed because his dick probably would've shrunk back after he came & he didn't want me to see how his dick looked once it wasn't hard anymore. I honestly thought that maybe he didn't cum & he was just lying to me so we could just finish. but who knows. is it a thing for guys to feel embarrassed for the girl to see their dick after it goes soft?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Have him pull out and squirt on your belly, or if you can stand it, take a facial! Tell him you'd like to see what his load looks like coming out. Doing a facial will get you a close up look, if it doesn't squirt in your eyes, lmao! If he has a problem jerking it in front of you, or FOR you, on your belly or face, offer to do it for him.

Whether you have him pull out, or jerk it for him wherever, however, unless he's a one shot wonder, why should he care? He's getting his rocks off. And if he's capable of a second, third or more, it really shouldn't matter. He'll get to leave it in you next time he shoots

As a last resort, instead of any of that, offer him head and when he's ready to unload, pull it from your mouth and squirt it on your face or tits.

If it's an issue of him being embarrassed when it's small, I'd suggest sucking his softee. Tell him you want to feel it grow inside your mouth, assuming he's not already rock hard and oozing precum in anticipation of whatever sex act you're going to engage in.

Failing all of that, I'm lost. The dude is weird, or self conscious for some reason. It'll be your job to instill confidence. Tell him, if I didn't love your cock, you wouldn't be fucking me, or Iwouldn't be doing whatever it is I do to make you cum. He needs to know you love his cock no matter what... big and throbbing or small and shriveled.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'm not exactly sure where the feeling comes from, but I know myself when I'm naked with a woman, it's like I HAVE to have an erection, or she'll be turned off or disgusted or something lol. And partly if he's a "grower", and very small when not erect, he could be a bit embarrassed also. I'd say keep trying. Like don't push him too much, but from time to time, let him know you'd like to see it when he's not erect because you'd like it (not to make fun of him or anything like that). Eventually he might do it, and once he sees that you like it, might get more comfortable. You could even suggest just being naked together sometime, like when you're watching a movie or something, do it naked, no sex or anything. Get you both more comfortable just being naked together.

But yeah, I know for me, and I assume most guys, it's a feeling like we have to have an erection if we're naked with a woman, or she'll be turned off, or laugh or something lol.

katiesmuff · Accepted Answer

It not something I have witnessed with any of my sexual follies in the past. As the one person mentions maybe the guy is embarrassed at how much his dick shrunk, but in my opinion the more likely reason is what you yourself was thinking that he didn't actually cum.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

That’s kind of odd because in my experience, it takes a few minutes for a guy to go completely soft after sex. Sounds like he may have lost his erection and was embarrassed.

RobT312 · Answer

Nope not at all. i love it when she sees it and plays with it afterwards. I love being all wet and lubed down there afterwards

ohshee · Answer

No not lmao. Why there going to see all the time in the shower getting out of the shower you're going to see it in the bedroom I got to see why you're getting dressed you're going to see it when you run into the bathroom and see if they've hurry I gotta pee I gotta pee it should say use the other bathroom and you say I can't there's somebody in there hurry baby. Spread your legs quick LOL I don't think there's any reason to be embarrassed about

Lionman95 · Answer

Yes probably for guys because their dick shrinks when it´s softens and because size matters they want to show of their dicks when it´s smaller.

Ylva-ungjente · Answer

I know my boyfriend was embarrassed for me to see his shrink the first time after he cum. It got small LOL. I still liked it.

DonkeyDan · Answer

I've never hidden it from a girl, not embarrassed to show her after at all, seems weird.

Rixon · Answer

My experience is girls usually like to see the dick after cumming, so you are not alone. I never have been embarrassed to show after i have cummed because even though it might have gone flaccid it still looks good because it is all covered with the girl's juices, sometimes even creamy. I usually wait a while after washing it off. I don't see a problem here most likely he is embarrassed to show his flaccid dick. But then my point is why to be embarrassed in front of a girl you had just sex with?

20yearsolder · Answer

Am I embarrassed, I'm not. But immediately after I cum, My dick returns to its flaccid stage. So I'm assuming he never showed you his dick unless it was hard

TadCurious · Answer

Most guys are "growers" and not "showers." Growers have penises that are considerably smaller when they're soft, whereas showers have penises that are pretty much the same size both soft and hard. So if a guy isn't confident that a girl understands how much a penis can shrink after cumming he might be self conscious about it. Of course no one should be self critical or critical about what is perfectly normal shrinkage. I'm sure you're accepting about it.

GenaBaby1995 · Answer

Just one and it got really small, but was about 7in, he always wore shorts I didn't mine he tried harder I think and was pretty good at it too, Lol

Citizenkirk · Answer

I don't see why guys and girls have such a hard (double entendre, sweet 🧁🎂) time syncing thier orgasms together, but anyway, he might have been embarrassed about the mess of cum on covering his groin area.
Or it could be as your friend said, he shrunk and was embarrassed about it.

AviatorTom · Answer

That thought never crossed my mind. She could see my dick whenever she wanted. One woman I dated actually loved watching it grow from flaccid to fully erect, and then back to flaccid.

Dargil · Answer

Other than her asking: "Where did it go?" Naah.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Not embarrassed at all if a girl sees my penis after I cum

FunkyMonkee · Answer

No, what for?

exitseven · Answer

my wife thinks it is adorable when it shrinks. It is like the incredible hulk.

bowenw · Answer

It's not a problem for me. It's usually semi-hard right after. My SO will usually help with clean up and occasionally lick off some of the remaining cum.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Nope... if he didn't let you see it, it almost makes me wonder if he actually finished?

cth96190 · Answer

Hell no! I want her to suck it immediately after I pull out.

AndrewVahalla1987 · Answer

I guess some guys dont like it me personally I could careless, wifey is usually down there "assessing" the situation for the next round so kinda hard to be shy around herr