Have you ever got irritated because of your partner's obessesion towards your body?

Question

So this is weird i guess okay everything was going normal it's been a year of our marriage but just from a month, he's like obessesing over me, it's good he likes me, he is still attracted to me but i don't think it is good if it excess

I am a housewife and he works as a manager in a transporting company, from a month he is overly attracted towards my breast, whenever we are in private his hand just goes on my breast, pinching my nipples hardly, just squeezing them suddenly, whenever we are together and alone, he just spends time on my breast whether we are talking or watching a movie, during sex, i have a normal medium size and it just started from a month ago

What can be the reason of it? i talked him about it and he just said that boobs are amazing and they makes him turned on everytime.

I am not feeling any problem, i have no problem him touching my breast everytime, actually it is fun sometimes but it can be irritating and distracting as you female nipples are more sensitive than male nipples

I just wanna know if it is a normal, should i let him do that? And what can be the reason for him being suddenly too much attracted to my breast

DonkeyDan · Accepted Answer

It seems a bit much doing it all the time, especially at times that aren't usual like foreplay and the run up to it, or just making out. I mean I used to cup my wifes tits if I hugged her from behind but I wouldn't have just sat there on the sofa playing with them while watching TV, seems a bit sort of inappropriate even though you're his wife. I really can't think of a reason why all of a sudden he'd start this unless maybe he's seen something in porn that has got him particularly interested in tits.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You need to get over that and appreciate the fact that he loves your body. I'm sure you do things that annoy him too. Don't fuck up your sexual relationship by making hi feel bad for loving your body. That could create problems that would be difficult to overcome.

You have a good marriage, keep it that way. Taking the good with the bad is a requirements in a healthy marriage. And him loving your body is a damned good thing. Don't fuck that up.

Destiel_24 · Accepted Answer

I think the problem is that he touches you a lot sudenly without consent, maybe just tell him that you obvioulsy are not always in the mood and he should respect that and ask. And if you dont feel like It at the moment just tell him, communication is key

JoyGirl · Accepted Answer

I mean, you are his women… The fudge do you expect?

Angela_S · Answer

I kind of know what you mean. This used to be an issue for us when we first started dating and them living together, but more about my legs than breasts. I've always worn short skirts and dresses, and my boyfriend is a major leg man and doesn't seem to understand that people can wear these clothes without meaning to be sexy. Whenever I wore anything that stopped anywhere above the knee, particularly with bare legs, he would instantly get an erection whether he wanted to or not. At first I thought he was just seeing me as a sex object, but when I realised how embarrassed he was starting to get about it, and when he explained he couldn't help it, I kind of understood. I even started dressing differently, with more trousers or longer dresses, but then decided I shouldn't change who I am. In the end the situation resolved itself because when we moved in together we were having A LOT more sex, which kind of took the edge off it a bit. And I discovered it was a lot easier, if I wasn't in the mood for sex and was planning to wear a short skirt, if I just gave him a hand job in the morning.