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In a MMF threesome, do you want to be the second guy or the first guy?



In a MMF threesome, do you want to be the second guy or the first guy?
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This is a MMF scene where the female is the focus of attention, no guy on guy for this one.

I am asking if you want to be, or were, first or second in line for vaginal sex, because I know there is a fetish to this where some guys actually prefer being second in line for reasons they can put in comments, or select in the survey.

Girls have you ever done MMF before? What were the rules for the scene? Where you busy with oral on one while having vaginal sex with the other one?

What was each guy doing and what were you doing?

Sometimes it is fun to list survey questions here in the body of the post besides the ones that are in the survey itself, so if you like survey questions, here they are.

The following answers are based on what you would like to happen in your fantasy or a real MMF threesome that you had...

1. Why I want to be 1st, or 2nd, in line...

2. During your MMF Threesome did you do vaginal only or also anal and/or oral?

3. Was there any BDSM involved, like spanking or hands bound, etc?

4. Was there any DP (Double Penetration) involved?

5. Were you able to experience orgasm?

6. What modification would have made the experience more perfect for you?

7. Did the experience go as well as you expected or better or worse?

8. Would you do it again?
In a MMF threesome, do you want to be the second guy or the first guy?
I definitely want to be the first guy since I don't want to get the other guys DNA on my private parts
Vote A
In a MMF threesome, do you want to be the second guy or the first guy?
I would insist on being the second guy as I am a "Sloppy Seconds" lover but no oral
Vote B
In a MMF threesome, do you want to be the second guy or the first guy?
I would insist on being the second guy as I totally love "Sloppy Seconds", including oral
Vote C
In a MMF threesome, do you want to be the second guy or the first guy?
I have never done a MMF threesome, but I have done a FFM
Vote D
In a MMF threesome, do you want to be the second guy or the first guy?
I have never done a threesome but would love to try it sometime
Vote E
In a MMF threesome, do you want to be the second guy or the first guy?
I have never done a threesome and am not interested in trying it
Vote F
In a MMF threesome, do you want to be the second guy or the first guy?
OTHER, see my comments below, or just open the "MMF Threesome" Survey
Vote G
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I had to laugh at all the guys who said they would rather have an FMF. I swear, there's no way you can make a question on this site clear enough for the average person on here.
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    1. Why I want to be 1st, or 2nd, in line...

    My boyfriend says it's called "reclaiming sex" and that there's nothing hotter than that. Maybe it's like "make up sex", only on steroids. (Meaning he goes last)

    2. During your MMF Threesome did you do vaginal only or also anal and/or oral?

    It is always vaginal and oral, but no anal

    3. Was there any BDSM involved, like spanking or hands bound, etc?

    If spanking is considered BDSM, then, yes.

    4. Was there any DP (Double Penetration) involved?

    Not in the classic sense of the term

    5. Were you able to experience orgasm?

    Yes, a few

    6. What modification would have made the experience more perfect for you?

    I guess not planning the timing, well. Our friend had to leave after, because he had a long drive and had to work the next day. It would have been nice if we could all of had breakfast together in the morning, just to sense if anyone had any regrets.

    7. Did the experience go as well as you expected or better or worse?

    I would say better, because our friend was so awesome. He knows how to blend his energy into the situation, only to make it better, not worse.

    8. Would you do it again?

    Absolutely, but not very often. We think 3-4 times per year would be best.

  • I can only answer for my husband, he prefers being second, reason being that the other guy has done the work and he collects the rewards of me being hotter than usual

    • That's a GOLD STAR answer for sure! :)

    • don't know about that, but that is how it was explained to me

    • Girls, have you ever done MMF before? What were the rules for the scene? Were you busy with oral on one while having vaginal sex with the other one? yes, I have many times, at first, the other guy had to wear a condom, no, both were busy on my body's pleasures, What was each guy doing and what were you doing? both as I said were busy with their lips and hands, as for meI did what I could when I could, Sometimes it is fun to list survey questions here in the body of the post beside the ones that are in the survey itself, so if you like survey questions, here they are. The following answers are based on what you would like to happen in your fantasy or a real MMF threesome that you had... 1. Why I want to be 1st, or 2nd, in line... husband second, 2. During your MMF Threesome did you do vaginal only or also anal and/or oral? first one only vagina sex and caressing, 3. Was there any BDSM involved, like spanking or hands bound, etc? no never 4. Was there any DP (Double Penetration) involved? again no never 5. Were you able to experience orgasm? yes many times, 6. What modification would have made the experience more perfect for you? on the first one, what to do next 7. Did the experience go as well as you expected or better or worse? far better than expected, 8. Would you do it again? we have done many and still do,

Most Helpful Guys

  • I would definitely want to be first and then last….

    My SO and I have only shared one MMF so far. It was not a M & M focused on the female (not what she wanted nor was it the goal - maybe another time?)

    1. Why I want to be 1st, or 2nd, in line...
    First…soI can talk/tease her…. Get her even more riled up with anticipation.
    2. During your MMF Threesome did you do vaginal only or also anal and/or oral?
    We did oral and vaginal (she only wanted me in the nether regions). She did get to be spit roasted (of sorts), she sat on my lap while sucking on the other (it was a great view) and she was able to suck both of us at the same time (a novelty she wanted to experience)
    3. Was there any BDSM involved, like spanking or hands bound, etc?
    No
    4. Was there any DP (Double Penetration) involved?
    No. Hopefully next time. I think she would enjoy it…and would be an awesome sharing experience!
    5. Were you able to experience orgasm?
    No. Not normal for me but I was a little nervous/self conscious given the main goal.
    6. What modification would have made the experience more perfect for you?
    Relax more and take our time in a few different positions…. Share the moment (s) more….
    7. Did the experience go as well as you expected or better or worse?
    I think it went better than I thought it would (my SO feels the same way)
    8. Would you do it again?
    Absolutely. We would likely have different goals than the first time (MFM

    • Wow! That sounded really nice :)

    • It really was….


  • 1. Why I want to be 1st, or 2nd, in line... I prefer to be first, but I let her decide who she wants first because I have a long, thick penis.

    2. During your MMF Threesome did you do vaginal only or also anal and/or oral? Vaginal and oral

    3. Was there any BDSM involved, like spanking or hands bound, etc? No

    4. Was there any DP (Double Penetration) involved? No

    5. Were you able to experience orgasm? Yes

    6. What modification would have made the experience more perfect for you? Nothing

    7. Did the experience go as well as you expected or better or worse? As expected

    8. Would you do it again? Yes

    • Nice! :)

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  • there's an order to these things?

  • Interesting. The the thought never crossed my mind, it just didn’t matter and still doesn’t matter. I’ll be first or second without any hesitation.

    we did oral, anal, vaginal, double penetration and double vaginal penetration.

    No bdsm, maybe a few love spanks here and there but that was it.

    we all loved double penetration because that was a new experience. We had multiple sessions as we were all eager to try different positions. We all orgasmed multiple times.

    we all ended up having great chemistry so it was better than anticipated and the same three of us still meet up and have threesome nights, we may get together this weekend actually!

  • Well I’d rather be her but if I had to be one of the guys it’ll be second, assuming it’s one go each so I won’t have to wait until he’s done, or maybe I’ll just leave regardless once I’m done whether that was first or second.

  • I would prefer there to be guy on guy involved. Sloppy seconds is hot! I'd kiss her after she sucked him off and want her to snowball me.

  • I'm much more comfortable being the second guy, and only being allowed to perform after date cleanup service for her.

  • none of the three

  • I really don't care if I go first or second in an MFM, but why not just go together, DvP is the greatest. I've done all holes in a threesome, no BDSM for me thanks, and yes I would and will be doing it again.

  • In my MMF, only one guy has intercourse while she performs fellatio on the other guy. Each guy pulls out before ejaculating, one on her belly, the other on her breasts. With teh same woman, on different occasions, I've been both guys.

  • A threesome involving a second active male is not something likely to happen with me. I don't feel confortable with the idea. If nevertheless I should play a role in a MMF configuration, that would be as an observer (wanking?), maybe photographing, or as only active male with the other being the observer possibly making pictures. The latter happened to me once. A nice young woman invited me mentioning her friend would be present but not active. Actually the guy filmed and told me he had a medical condition preventing him from having normal sex. His pleasure was seeing his girlfriend having a good time with another man and taking pictures.

    There may still be an exception if the second male appears to be a tranny or shemale... The reason? I guess because those persons have a more female mind.

    What I first of all need is the proximity of female mind and body. Trannies and shemales are somewhere in between.

  • I don't want MMF though. Only FFM.

  • Like the mess of another mans cum in her it drives me wild to fuck her pussy full of cum like the feel when I put it in and seeing cum oozing out of her pussy lips I cum hard and quick like this

  • 1. Makes no difference to me, the result is the same lol

    2. I'd do vaginal and oral but not anal as that takes a lot of trust and prep and aftercare that would be too distracting with ab extra person involved, too many variables to account for with anal, although I'd do it 1 on 1

    3. I'd happily involve some such elements if the girl wants it, it's all about her pleasure

    4. Again, if we're talking vaginal and oral, then yes I would

    5. Can't answer as this is all hypothetical atm

    6-8. Same response ^

  • It is a fantasy of mine - especially if with another bi-guy. I know your question said "no guy on guy" which is cool... minor point, and I could be wrong, but I believe "mmf" is when there is guy-on-guy whereas "mfm" is no guy on guy just the two guys getting the one f :)

    I know of this as I have searched often for mmf 3somes lol :)

    • I'm available for mmf.

    • in a MMF there is g on g. With MFM there is no G on G. I love MMF.

  • After the first guy finished his deed in my wife, she enjoys me going down on her and eating her creampie. It is extremely erotic and intense for the both of us, and she has incredible orgasms. After that, I'll take my turn while she passionately makes out or gives oral to the first guy. Very hot!

  • Never been in one and have no interest in being in one. I’ve actually turned one down in the past.

  • Um... our goal for a potential MFM is DP.
    So there would be no SS.
    ALNAFAIWH... OE.

  • I’d totally be down for MMF. I have a huge fantasy of going 69 while she’s being fucked!

  • risk of being the fifth wheel is too freaking high xD no thanks.

  • I always do FMF

  • I would so do a FFM

    • YES!! My twin sister! ... lol

    • So much alike. Lol

    • My FFMs were with my high school bestie, we shared boyfriends all the time, and learned to scratch itches for each other!

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