Is it right of me to turn a guy down because of his body count and popularity status differentiating from mine?

[Anonymous]

For example, if he's had more sexual partners than me, i dont know if he's the type to fuck around or is serious with relationships. I only slept with one guy once in my life so id prefer a guy with a low body count like me so i dont feel much anxiety. 2, seems lile he's trying to boost his popularity on tik tok for more girls to notice him even tho we talked for a bit yesterday and said he "likes me", he kept changing photos on the dating app.. i just don't know if he would be right for me knowing he's been around quite a bit and wants to be out there as im the opposite, a low status girl who's socially awkward, reserved but nice to those she knows,&more of a home body with a small friend circle. I see myself more with a shy reserved guy.

[Kaneki05]

Is it right for me to tell you who you should date or not?
It's your life date who you want and go based on your on likings. Unless if it's something extreme that's just bad overall like racism with such "I won't date black guys because black is bad", I am not gonna tell you it's wrong.

You see I couldn't care about how many body count she has had, and do I find it weird and dumb to judge just based on body count sure but that's my opinion which shouldn't sway into what you want and your own opinion.

Also sounds like it may not just only be based body count it's also just your personalities don't match since you like a shy reserved guy which again is the preference that's your right to have. And wanting someone like yourself is a common thing.
So nah nothing wrong.

[loveslongnails]

Why are you even pondering this or asking strangers what is "right", for you? I can understand you not wanting to sleep with a player. But what's this self-deprecating shit about you being a "low status, socially awkward girl... blah, blah, blah"? Stop that crap. Date whoever you want for the reasons you want, and don't date them for the reasons that make sense to you.

[Berethor]

It usually guys who are doing that, but you can do it as well.

[DonkeyDan]

The choice of person you date or have sex with is entirely your decision for whatever reason.

[Citizenkirk]

It seems that you just answered your own question. Date someone you like, who has similar interests as you, and don't worry so much about what other's think of you. You obviously know yourself better than anyone, so go with that for now.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Trust your intuition

[Justerino]

Sound like he tryna +1

[Jamie05rhs]

Well, you're not wrong.

[Robbam555]

Don’t think of you turning a guy down being right or wrong. It’s your decision. You can turn a guy down for whatever reason you want. It’s your body.

[nawtee_me]

You do you as best you can. If a girl had a bigger body count than me it would not bother me at all. Same if she was a virgin, it would not bother me. People have a past...

[EaterPeter]

I think so

[Tstrbrainer]

You can reject him, it is your life

[Anonymous]

I agree with you, I would turn a girl down because of her body count, she doesn't seem like relationship material.

[Anonymous]

Oh, YES, it's most DEFINITELY ok to turn him down. In fact, run fast and run far!

..."and said he 'likes' me". He "likes" every girl he encounters... mhmm. I wonder why? It couldn't be a part of his game to say that, could it? Your gut knows better.

You'll be another number. Go find what you really want. He's out therelooking for you, and he's not a playboy.