What does it mean when a man covers a woman’s face with a pillow during sex, as soon as he turned the lights on?

What does it mean when a man covers a woman’s face with a pillow during sex, as soon as he turned the lights on?
My African American friends with benefits did this to me as soon as he turned the lights on. We didn’t start off as friends or anything. I just slept with him for over 2 years. When out of nowhere he did this when he turned on the lights during sex.
💔

I wasn’t making sounds or anything… :(
He removed it after a moment of penetrating and begun kissing me.
I don’t consider myself ugly, I’d say I’m basic… :(
But still.
Girls this ever happened to you.
Guys have you done this and why.
Answer anonymously if you want to…
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Most Helpful Guys

  • maybe... he was fantasizing that you were someone else, it's easier if there isn't the "real face" looking back at you...

  • He was thinking of someone else while penetrating you...

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  • Damn either he was playing, he was trying to quiet you, he doesn't find you attractive, or he legit wanted to kill you. I don't know his deal but thats rude

  • Really strange thing to do and nothing I have ever heard of!

  • i swear to god, he's sayin you're ugly. 100%. Not trying to insult but if I ever have sex (unlikely) with someone and they put a pillow over my face, I'm gonna think they don't wanna see my face or I've hit my dream of being rich and now it's time for me to "disappear into the night."

    • That or maybe he's ashamed of himself or he doesn't want to look her in the eyes cuz its to intimate maybe

  • Was imagining someone else

  • Sounds like he didn't want to look you in the eyes so as to not make an emotional connection.

    • Sounds about right

  • If you don't like it tell him not to do it again.
    Don't ever be get comfortable with someone potentially blocking your airway.
    If he wants to fantasize tell him to shut his eyes.

  • No idea and that's strange.

  • Could be she screams to loud during sex

  • No idea. That’s actually strange.

  • Nah i ain't ever do this lol if i ain't wanna stare at you id remain in doggy the whole time lol

  • He might kill her ! Be Careful

  • Most likely answer? You're just pussy to him and that's it.

    Could also be he covers your face so your eyes doesn't hurt from the sudden bright lights.

  • You know why
    And so do I
    So lets cut to the chase
    And have some wine 🍆

    I thought you guys were friends with benefits? Which means you have to be somewhat attractive because the only thing you share is sex.

  • It has nothing to do with you. Maybe he doesn't want you to SEE him. Or maybe he was imagining someone else. Or maybe that's his kink. Why did we need to know he's African American? or is this like a post for your subs?

    • Maybe it’s Black people thing… that’s why

  • Weird, maybe he doesn’t want you to see him naked there

  • Dominance

    or

    the he doesn't find the girl attractive

    one of the two

  • Dominance

  • Because he didn't want to look at your face, he just needed your hole.