Is it normal that my fiancé's slutty past annoys me?

[Anonymous]

She used to be a waitress at a bar for a long time and I've heard the rumors about her before I really met her. A lot of guys in town joked about her like "if you want to get your dick sucked, don't pay a hooker, try her first and you might get it for free". She was never very open about her past but the longer I've been with her, the more stories I've heard and the more she opened up about it. It did bug me but I love her and the past is the past. Recently I found out that she probaby had around 100 sex partners, about 150 if you count the guys she just blew. So it was pretty extreme and mostly douchbags you wouldn't want your fiance to have had sex with. I did get myself through that fact even though it is not a pleasant thought.

What bugs me the most is that she's had a very low sex drive since ever we were together. She blew every random guy on the toilet for their birthday, but we rarely have sex. She had threesomes with two guys for losing a bet on a footbaal game, but we never do anything kinky. That does make me feel really jealous.

What do you guys think about this? Is it normal that this is on my mind so much? What is it that changed her?

[laurieluvsit]

My dad always told me to never finalize a relationship with anyone until you have had at least one knock down drag out fight with them in order to find out who they really are.

Please do that before you go any further with this girl.

She needs to know what you really think of her and when you start calling her a F**King whore and slut, then she will know!

Do the right thing and show your colors but seeing you are saying all this about her as an Anon, I doubt that you will ever come clean until she finally realizes that she needs a new husband!

[Msputiton]

Either accept it or let her find someone who won't stress her over her past.

Not 1 person in this world that is grown has not done things they aren't proud of.

It doesn't mean they should be judged for life over it.

So accept it or let her be with someone less judgmental.

[Red_Arrow]

What is not normal is that you knew her past, and what she did still bothers you or you would not be writing this, yet you still proposed. Go ahead and marry, but plan on being out of the marriage in a few months, unless you get her pregnant and end up stuck with her.

[jahaims]

She didn't those things because of her sex drive. She did it because she is broken and that is how she got attention to boost her self esteem. She gets attention from you for reasons other than sex so she doesn't feel the need to give you as much sexual attention.

[Guy13]

I rather have a girl with a little mileage and an experiential heart than Mother Teresa. Is she wholly focused on you❓Can you both learn, varied things, from one another❓-grow together❓

[bones_20]

So if this is how you feel then why the fuck did you propose? These are feelings you should have sorted through before doing so.

[Asker]

Cause there's a lot more to a relationship than that?

[Asker]

Even though it really bugs me, it still doesn't make me regret proposing to her.

[bones_20]

Well reading your question all I can see is very negative things you have to say about it.

[HighValue]

Just leave. She is just settling for you after she whores around and isn't desirable anymore. Don't accept someone like that.

[exitseven]

you are probably a nice stable guy and to her that may be too boring for her after a while. I would think long and hard before marrying her.

[Whizzy83]

I honestly think you are one of the stupidest simpiest persons to walk on this earth.


Please stay with her. A real women doesn’t deserve to be with a moron like you. And I genuinely mean that. I hope this is a joke but I’ve meat stupid people like you. You’re definitely a Liberl 100% for SURE!!!

[genericname85]

yeah it's very normal that this annoys you. most guys wouldn't wanna be with a girl like that for this exact reason.

[FýrdracaDócincel]

Be careful that she isn't just settling down with you.

And watch out for the classic "I'm just not a sexual person" bullshit.

[rabbitzzz]

I prescribe 100 hookers to get over this fever.

[DyingLately]

Kinda weird to propose to someone if a part of their past annoys you. But I’d say it’s normal

[Twalli]

She settled down

[GMANN56]

I'm sorry but I'm not seeing this end well.

[Xoirwinkan]

Yeah, most guys don't want a whore.

[Billiumboomerboi]

very normal, don't marry her.

[Anonymous]

If you rarely have sex you have the worst of both worlds. The only advantage to dating hoes is you at least get laid a lot. Nobody wants to date the town bike so she settled for the only person willing to date meaning you are just leftovers

The longer she takes to sex you, the less attracted she is. If there was a man she got into bed faster than you then she like him better than you but she couldn't have him. She is playing you for fool

[Anonymous]

A slut will have no rules for random “chads” but create rules for the guys they want to “like them”...
she is trash man.
If you were some pile of shit asshole random, you’d be getting your dick wet but because you are not, she is a dry bed because she doesn’t feel the need to use her vagina as a tool anymore. She got you. She doesn't need to bother because you already gave her attention.

[Anonymous]

you are an idiot lol

[Anonymous]

The low sex drive is a redfkag, likely she's cheating.
My ex had a low sex drive yet fucked a lot of guys. She wanted the attention more than the sex.

[Anonymous]

Basically, she's settling for you after riding cocks in her youth and giving her best to other dudes. Stay far far away from marriage or commitment.

[Anonymous]

She is just tired of it since she did so much of it and maybe trying to be more normal since getting older. You should tell her you would like to still have kinky sex