Why do so many guys nowadays think women are hung up on superficial things like dick size and height?

[WhiteBoyChill]

I’m a short guy. I am 5’ 9”.

I don’t have a huge dick either. It is only six inches.

But I’ve accepted the fact because there ain’t a thing I can do about it so why get upset over it?

Ideally I would have a larger dick, and ideally I would also be at least a few inches taller.

And ideally there are also women in the world who want less body fat.

But that’s life.

I’m still ahead of some men when it comes to other areas like class and professionalism for instance which women seem to value more.

And in regards to the women, I’m actually dating a girl who carries a few extra pounds at the moment.

Obviously there’s still a certain level of obesity that can still be healthy, and to be frank, a few extra pounds isn’t going to bother most guys either.

In any case men always claim that women really care about height. And while many women do have height preferences, it doesn’t mean short guys don’t have a chance.

Because even still most short guys are still taller than the average woman.

So the issue is really just a lack of confidence.

Growing up as a short guy, I was always picked on and targeted by bigger guys which really affected my confidence around women when I was younger.

At the time I felt unworthy of them because the other guys had me believe I was less capable than them. Which created all sorts of discomfort.

I felt that I had to “prove” myself worthy to women when I was younger. But as I got older I realized there is nothing wrong with just talking to them. They aren’t there to judge you unless you disrespect them in some way.

And in regards to dick size its more about skill than it is anything else according to the women I’ve talked to.

They all generally seem to prefer an average sized guy that knows how to use it over a big guy that doesn’t try to pleasure them.

So as long as it isn’t an extremely tiny dick (which less than 5% of men have anyway) most women aren’t going to care. 90-95% of guys are clinically average anyway.

[mikaelis]

I agree man, I think it's confidence and just being a good guy that comes first. I've met some tall people and" probably"people with bigger dicks than me ( I say probably because I'dont go asking how big another man's junk is ) that's not my business haha.
I do think it's about understanding why anyone would like to care or understand us too. Like I'm not gonna win most career driven, most handsome but I could go for most fun, funniest and kindest. Now the world being a visual place , I know I won't be considered a possible date or match to most women , but I don't need to.. I only need to be that for just one gal. A few if your Mormon or live in a different country that allows that kind of thing lol

[WhiteBoyChill]

Ya bro I hear you. I used to be afraid of fcking up my chances with women but then somebody told me that in a world of almost 3.5 billion women, I only need one

[Anonymous]

I thought the same until I was told by women themselves they wouldn't date someone unless they were at least 5 inches taller than them. When I asked why one got with him she said few compliments for him then ended with: plus his dick was HUGE so yeah that's a big reason

This was taught to us by women, because who else would we learn it from. Men aren't the ones trying to sleep with tall men. The men from my school never even mention my height and encourage me to go for the girls instead of setting superficial standards of who I can or can't date

[Aurora1010]

I don't know why they think we are obsessed with height and dick size either, it seems guys judge themselves and their "manliness" on those things more than women do, but like you said... intelligence, motivation and attitude are what matters most. I think those things are that really make someone a real man or woman.
And you're not short at all. 5'9 is an average height for men, 6 inch penis s average too which some girls actually prefer an average size penis.

[WhiteBoyChill]

I totally agree with you there. Like personality and attitude take a man a lot further

[Citizenkirk]

A lot of guys think that because a lot of woman are.

[Wise4myage]

I think watching too much porn has a lot to with this.

[PinkPrincess8]

they're insecure

[PatriceONeal]

5'9 short? Since when

[Anonymous]

I'm black. Women love my big dick.

[WhiteBoyChill]

I didn’t say women hated big dicks, but just that it isn’t always a requirement

[Anonymous]

Well I'm not sure if you have fully "accepted" it as you have been sure to mention that info on here so everyone knows! lol (not necessary). And I don't think 5'9" is short at all. But yes, SOME are obsessed it seems. Women with height especially I think. To the point that it's actually a "deal breaker" for many. Which is mind blowing to me. And many want the very unrealistic. Time to come back to earth and reality! lol