Is it important your partner hygiene to continue with the relationship?

Hey guys and girls, thanks for reading.

like I have been in this relationship for 1 year and a half but things are not the same.

I love her and spend time together, but since the beginning her scent was bit strong. She disregard my suggestions to use deodorant and look after her. Every time that I talked about it she was upset and for me I felt like dick or uncomfortable.

things progress but our sex life is not the best. I don’t feel excited to do it, it really depends on my mood and the environment or smell. I too sensitive to smells so I can get uncomfortable easy.

I love her and I’m so grateful with her but things are just getting repetitive and boring. I mentioned to her that odours is important but I can’t force my partner to change.

I don’t want to make her unhappy or miserable that I cannot satisfy her because the smell is not the one I would like. Not sure what else to do…

I would like to live together and form a family but not sure if it will work or we will suffer. I propose to her to have an open relationship to meet more people and she Ninfa considere the option.

the other thing that puts pressure on me is that masculine organ does not get really strong when doing it and sometimes I need to think on other people or things to maintain it. Not sure if is due to my low pressure or stress or thinking to much about work or not having interest for sex.
It is ironic I always wanted to have too much but I’m not interested or it’s my mood or environment.

guys could you please provide any advice? I told her that if things continue like this I’m gonna end the relationship. I’m trying to do something different to turn on the flame but we are in our comfort zone without energy to do something about it.

thanks for your help.
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  • The smell is one of our strongest senses and if this sense is offset by body odor, then there is not much you can do that you have not done in the past.

    Despite the fact that you love her, she will not change for you and you have to give a serious thought about ending this relation since it seems to impact on your intimacy.

    Basically, you are emotionally cheating on her if you need to think of other women when being intimate. This will result that the relation will deteriorate with time and that you will have to sever this relation later because her body odor affects your libido so much that you are not able to get an erection.

    Why delay what you subconsciously have already decided? You made your mind up to sever the relation if nothing changes and you know nothing will change. Why torture yourself knowing that the relation will end sooner or later.

    I suggest that you ask her to consult a specialist and if she refuses, then you know what you have to do for your own sake.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I'm assuming that you are referring to vaginal odor. You were not clear...

    Men continually fail to realize that they are the primary cause for their female lover's vag PH balance being thrown off... especially if the man does not wear a condom. Women have been dying of cervical cancers for centuries because of constant seminal infusions by "their man".

    1. Take responsibility for your part in your lady's health by faithfully wearing a rubber.

    2. Encourage her to see a gynecologist on a regular basis and to get properly treated for whatever is plaguing her... Money should not be a factor since free clinics exist throughout the United States.

    3. Quit blaming women for being solely responsible for vaginal odor when they are getting suspect dick injections from men who use them as cum dumpsters.

    The Creator made vaginas odorless. They usually only start to stink when females start having sex with unclean partners who give them STDs.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Hygiene for me is very important, I take my own very seriously, maybe too seriously sometimes, but it can be a real issue if the other person doesn't care for themselves regularly.

    Some people do naturally have a higher odor down there and as long as their hygiene is good that it's not a problem and I can accept that.

    The fact that you have considered looking outside if the relationship, suggests to me that it is already over in your eyes.

    If it is a hygiene issue and not just her natural scent and she is not prepared to do anything to improve her hygiene schedule then I don't see where you can go, other than accept it and continue with a nose peg lol or move on.

  • Communication is key.
    talk to her, continue to talk. If that doesn’t work, move on if you are unhappy knowing that you tried your best to improve things

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  • Talk to her.. if she is not seriously planning to change I think you should break up with her. Hygiene and smell is a real deal breaker and it’s not fair to you to be with someone smelly and not enjoy intimacy because she’s not clean. Also she has to learn, if it not listening, she would have to learn it the hard way. That’s my opinion

  • That's a PROPER red line for me, and I don't have many! I couldn't be around people who stink, I'd be constantly throwing up!

  • U are trying to make somthing work thats clearly not foing to last as she is not willing to change as she sees no issue

  • Hygiene is very important.