It definitely does not turn me on. But I have asked my boyfriend about his sex life with his ex, not so much anymore though.
I was curious to hear about it because I know how much he hates her (she made his life a misery when they were together), so I wanted to know about different aspects of the relationship.
Turns out he'd be lucky to get sex from her once or twice a month, and when she did do it she'd lay there like a corpse. It makes me happy to know I'm much better in bed than her.
It doesn’t turn me on to hear my partner talk about what their ex partner and he did in the past.
He could easily just tell me his likes and dislikes without saying it like he still fantasizes about it lol.
My boyfriend and I are both open when it comes to talking sexually. We both don’t have much experience except for each other, but his past partners never did anything that pleased him according to him…
Why even allow this to happen?
My SO was married and divorced, and she has two adult children. The two kids make it's obvious that she and her ex-husband have had sex.
Do I want to hear about her sexual experiences with her ex-husband? no, I don't. That means that we don't bring the subject up.
Life can be as simple or as complicated as you want to make it. Why complicate things?
"Ask me no questions, I tell you no lies."
Think about it.
Of course I never ask but some women will simply volunteer that information without it being solicited.
The only person I want to hear my girl talk about making her feel good is myself. Or herself lol. If that means I'm insecure then so be it.
An insecurity that is shared by almost all of us!
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!That would be a deal-breaker. It would make me feel very turned off and also hurt.
I get it.
I don't want to hear about it. Used what you've learned and keep that s*** to yourself. Please and thank you.
Amen!
It might be a good learning experience. After all, my goal is to pleasure my partner, and if she can tell me some things about how she was pleasured, that would help me pleasure her.
Yes, but a girl can say "yeah, keep doing that but slower [or softer, or whatever]" without adding, "When Leo did that, he always did it slower and that was so much better."
You are correct. I would then ask her what else Leo did that she liked, because I'd like to do that too... maybe better.
Not looking for a different future partner. However, it would be difficult to iqnore my current relationship where I have already dedicated 73% of my life and look forward to much more.
It never happened and I guess that is fine with me. We both had pretty small body counts anyway.
I don't mind the occasional interesting story eg had sex in the woods and got chased by a bear or something. But it doesn't need to be brought up often.
My wife and I were both virgins so I don't have this issue.
I chose F…. ask more questions. I want to know everything about my SO and know what she wants, likes, gets turned on by…. Previous experiences what she liked/didn’t like, etc…. Some of the stories could be a turn on too..
the more I know the better I will be to/for her..
I really don’t want to hear what he did with previous partners. That’s not a turn on. I don’t want to share my experiences either. Guys always seem turned on at first hearing about it but then later they get weird about it and become insecure and jealous. It ends bad every time.
I hate it, and he loves it.
Guys who think they are going to get a FMF threesome, are barking up the wrong tree. It's not right or wrong, but it is what it is., Women are very territorial. i would disown my man if he wanted another women, but he's shared me with many of his friends.
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