How much do guys like soft spoken dirty talk during sex? does it play a big part in making them cum and turning them on?

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I personally have noticed that in a lot of modern porn with professional productions like vixen, tushy, etc you'll hear all the female pornstars whispering/soft speaking dirty things like: 'yeah I love feeling your big cock go in and out of me'  
 'can you feel my tight pussy milking your cock'  etc  the camera will be zooming in onto the genitals for example and then they'll have the girls (or the guys) voice in the background whispering or softly dirty talking like that, and as a straight girl, I certainly find that all that soft speaking and whispering dirty things always turns me on as us girls are not as visual as guys and we need other things to stimulate us. So for me, when I'm watching porn, I really rely on all that soft speaking in the background to turn me on. In person, a guys smell and touch turn me on most, followed by their voice and how they talk to me. When I'm having sex, I also softly say dirty things whilst my guy is fucking me, and even though I kinda learned it from porn, they do definitely come out from me naturally and I hope my guy likes it and pays attention to it. I was just wandering if guys notice or get turned on by that stuff as much as I do as a girl, because I know men are more visual and I'm not sure if they pay attention to it as much, and in person, I'm always a bit more vocal during sex than my fbuddy is, and he stays quiet and focused whilst I talk dirty to him, so I was just wandering how much guys notice it and whether it helps in turning them on more or making them cum.

Lliam · Accepted Answer

I love it! It DOES play a big part. All her sounds - moans, groans, gasps, and especially things she says, heighten my arousal. Combined with her looks and movements, the slurping sounds of her pussy and her vocalizations are super hot. I can't get enough of hearing descriptions of how she feels and what my cock feels inside her. That, plus begging me to fuck her harder, or not to stop, makes me cum super hard and not want to stop. Under those circumstances, I can keep fucking her without pause, even after I cum.

I get more turned on my partner is, the more aroused I become. And I especially like uninhibited talk. The more passionate and descriptive the better.

I had one girlfriend like that who would orgasm over and over and, because of her looks, sounds, movements, enthusiasm and encouragement, I sometimes came inside her up to five times over a period of hours without pausing to rest and recharge. I just recharged while fucking.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If a woman said "can you feel my pussy milking your cock" I'd burst out laughing.
Just, no. That's is cringe as hell.

Silence is what I personally want in the bedroom, body language and the sounds you can't keep down should be the only way of communicating.

LesterJester · Answer

I prefer her to sound like a Death Metal singer so the neighbours think there's an exorcism happening.

"UUURRRRGGGGHHHOOOORRRRrrrr I'LL CRUSH YOURRR PEELLLVISSSS RRRRUUUAAAAAA!!" - With their head flailing around.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

It's more of a mental turn on than physical, but yeah; I love it.

oliversamuel · Answer

Talking's good. Sometimes it gets awkward without talking, and dirty talking can level up the feeling a bit more.

skytatoe · Answer

Yeah dirty talk is hot.

DGravez6 · Answer

Yes to both questions. For me, anyways

Wise4myage · Answer

I'm definitely into it.

clampfan101 · Answer

I’m virgin, but what I’ve seen gives me mixed feelings. I’m quite sure I’d rather just hear her breathing and occasionally saying short casual things like “just like that”. I also like really to hear the wetness. And most of all, I want a good mix of romantic feelings and not just arousal.

Klinklins · Answer

I love it

Cowboy6666 · Answer

I prefer a girl to be either moaning, crying, having intense rough dirty talk in quick way or with moaning/crying facial expressions but softly dirty talks aren't my thing :P

varan69 · Answer

Yesss. Its more exciting and helps you more to get into what you are doing. I personally do like it

anton_dee · Answer

Everything is a turn on during sex

Jerre · Answer

I love it, the dirtier the better. Especially true, like you said, when we are fucking. Love to hear words like “your cock feels so good”, “your cock going to make me cum” and it does make me want to cum, but I hold back until after she has cum. Then keep fucking and when she starts to cum again, I cum with her.

CubaPirate · Answer

I absofuckinglutley love it especially when I'm approaching the point of no return

Xtendable · Answer

I love it when girls are vocal

MasterKS · Answer

wet pussy, dirty mouth, cool combo.

Zlantur2 · Answer

It's not mandatory but it's hot.

Anonymous · Answer

One voice that I always found sexy was the girl who is w Bruce Willis’ character in Pulp Fiction where they’re in the bedroom. When she’s talking about wanting a pot belly. I love her voice, very sexy.