Girls, Is it unfair to expect my girlfriend to wear lingerie to bed every night or at least more than once or twice a week?

I love my girlfriend but the bunny slippers and flannel pajamas are so not sexy
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  • That is kind of unfair. She’s tired. Let her wear what she wants and entertain you with lingerie maybe once or twice a week.

    • I get that and I would never tell her what to wear

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    • Like a polar bear lol

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  • Tell her to ditch the pajamas and just wear the bunny slippers. Those sound cute

    • This may sound odd but I’ve never liked being totally naked in bed unless we are being intimate

    • Oh that is a little weird. What's wrong with being naked?

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  • Hmm I don't think it's selfish or unfair.
    I wear pjs and no makeup around my boyfriend 98% of the time, so it's fun to dress up sometimes or surprise him with new lingerie.
    Just be nice about it and try to fit in something nice like "You look beautiful any time of the day and in whatever clothes you're wearing" before asking if she could surprise you a bit more.

    • I appreciate the suggestion and will try that

    • I love my girlfriend better when she is not wearing any makeup

    • that's what my boyfriend says too - because you get to see their natural charms and natural beauty, but I can also totally see how you'd miss seeing them all dressed up or in special occasion wear. :)

  • The mood is not always upright, especially around that time of the month

    • during that time of the month she doesn’t event want me touching her

    • Yes, we get irritated

    • It’s like I’m living with a different person

  • It's not unfair. I wear lingerie every night just because I like it.

    Hopefully she starts dressing a little sexier for you. Especially if you bought her the lingerie.

  • Maybe talk to her about it

    • How do I bring it up?

  • What are you wearing for them

    • What do you mean?

    • If you want her to wear the lingerie all the time. What are you doing for her to do it

  • If she can't do that once or twice a week, dump her sorry ass.

    • she already comes to bed about twice a week in lingerie … I’m hoping she will wear it MORE than twice

    • Good