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Ever try a “throuples” relationship? Can they work?

After my girlfriend and I had a few threesomes with the same “third” we can see how a “throuple” or poly relationship can exist. Has anyone ever tried one with success?
Ever try a “throuples” relationship? Can they work?
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  • There is a whole giant community of poly people so yes it can work.
    Just to say though, that "throuples" are rarely successful by beginners because they fall into the trope of unicorn hunting (unicorns-r-us is a great website to read in this regard) Most couples try to add the third person into THEIR relationship, when the relationship should be with each person as well as the couple etc.

    • And threesomes are not the same and exactly why you should read the unicorn hunting page.

    • Yup agree with what you are saying. I’ll have a look at the site, I do know it’s different than a threesome. In my situation the 3 of us have feelings for each other but are not a throuple…I could see how it works for some … considering it is not off the table

  • Threesomes are easy, but I think the poly world is way too complicated for me.

    • It seems complicated and not sustainable, but I’m curious about it.

    • Assuming your third is a guy, what happens when he decides he wants a girlfriend of his own? After all, you have a girlfriend of your own so why can't he have one? And what if his girlfriend wants a boyfriend? And what if that boyfriend wants a girlfriend? It's pretty damn complicated. Back before match. com but OkCupid and destroyed it, there were lots of poly couples on there. But after reading a bunch of profiles I could tell they're all swingers that were afraid to use that term. So they used the term polyamorous. In their case, it was exactly the same thing as swinging but they just didn't like that term. It's like when someone cheats they prefer to call it an affair. LOL

    • Haha yes, You paint very messy picture. Yeah the third is a guy and somehow at the moment we all have mutual feelings for each other. But... the complications of additional people, jealousy, hurt feelings, cheating, etc are prob. the reasons it is not common

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  • Watch this old Eastwood movie. It's all about thouples:
    "Paint Your Wagon"
    https://ok.ru/video/1218086111745

    PS
    I do not believe in polygamy.

    • Yeah I hear ya. Never thought I’d believe in it either but in a situation where three of us have mutual feelings for each other

  • No and what's playing out on Sister Wives is exactly why its immoral and just does not work mostly jealousy.

    • I think it would have to be a perfect match of mutual feelings , otherwise I agree on the jealousy

    • I agree and even then I think feelings would just get in the way. Women especially want and need to feel they are their mans only love (sort of say)

    • Yup... yeah that’s very true. Prob why this sort of thing does not happen much

  • It is really funny how you made this question five days ago while I did my poly and mono poll today. 🤣 As for an answer I ain't got any problems with people who engage in poly but I just see myself as a one girl kinda guy, plus just picture the outcome of being a guy dating multiple women at the exact same time.

    https://youtu.be/18Qt9zc1S7k



    Yes I definitely can imagine that my black ass would be on the ground if I tried to do a real haram route!

    • Haha, love it

    • But yes I definitely can't be a huge player plus I don't want to cheat. If I were in a situation where someone gets cheated I actually rather be the person who gets cheated on instead of being the person who actually did the cheating. I would feel a little better knowing that I didn't do the wrong thing

    • 👍👍I’m too old for all that cheating stuff. I can’t cheat nor would I tolerate it, that’s why it isn’t for me

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  • Ewww Is that his nose hair?

  • Nope

  • I seriously don't understand the point of being in an "exclusive" relationship with someone if you're just gonna have sex with other people, consensual or not, it's just so fucking stupid in my opinion, but you people do you.

    • I get what u are saying. But in this case it’s being exclusive with 2 people. That’s what I was asking about

  • I would love to know more about your take on such -ship.

    • Good question, I asked it because I don’t know much about these types of relationships but curious about them. If a couple works, why not three? Are there 2 guys and a girl, or 2 girls, and a guy, or 3 girls, etc... that have a strong bond for each other and would want to be together? not traditional in any way but seems like it could work with the right chemistry.

  • I haven't done that but my girlfriend she has a friend with benefits

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