Question for people with adult children, would you or have you ever had sex with someone that is around your adult child's age?

Question

Would that not seem weird if you had say a 23-year-old daughter but you were hooking up with a 21-year-old?

I know someone who is doing that right now.

I suppose it could happen the other way too, you could be the parent whose child is hooking up with someone your age.

If you are younger feel free to state if you would do it with someone who is your parent's age.

Thoughts on this?

t-8900 · Accepted Answer

Well in sure a lot of the parents will have kids either pissed or grossed out by it but I'm neutral I suppose. Every once in a while I find a young person who IS mature enough to be taken seriously for a relationship but it's very rare. I think what makes it more creepy these days is the lack of maturity going on with young people. When you talk to many of them it's like you are still talking to pre pube kids. Sure they can be book smart but when it comes to life, when it comes to wisdom, when it comes to common sense, they're in twilight zone. They're so different from when I was growing up by and large. How can the generation coming up after me be so radically different? There's no sense of direction, duty, integrity, honor, ambition, etc. I saw a headline recently "40 is the new 25". Does that mean 21 is the new 10? I don't know but sure seems like it sometimes.

exitseven · Accepted Answer

I have never done this. I would think it was creepy.

ohshee · Answer

There was one time I was doing a job for a lady and I was going to go to Home Depot to pick up some supplies and she ordered and she said she wanted to ride with me and I said sure
We went to Home Depot pick everything up and on the way back I wanted to stop by my house and grab a couple tools that I forgot we pull up into the driveway I said okay I'll be right back cuz she said wait I want to see your house

I said of course come on in walked into the house my kid was in the kitchen my son I introduced him to the lady and he says I know her I've been over your house before your daughter is so and so and she said yes I showed her a couple things that I've done remodeled grab my tools and we left but I got back home my son says Dad her daughter is hot let's go on the four-way date and I said no that's okay I said I don't like her like that and he said well I do LOL he said okay Dad you can date the daughter I'll date her the mom and if I started laughing he's going to come on let's do it just think about the stories you can tell my your grandkids and I started laughing even harder he's going to come but he begs me he begged me and begged me and I would not do it a friend of mine was there that works with me and he says I'll do it and I should know you won't no you won't but I thought that was kind of funny

summiter · Answer

I don't have children yet (just got married) but as long as thy both were happy and practiced safe sex I don't think I'd mind.

PJH359 · Answer

Such an awesome question. Ten years ago I would have said how bizarre it is to see a 50 year old man with a 25 year old girl. However here’s the part that you might find interesting (I’ll make it as short as possible). I am close to 50 and divorced my wife about three years ago who is the same age as I. When I decided to put myself out there for a potential relationship etc, I did not receive a single response from any woman even close to my own age. Most if not all were between 28 and 34. Since the separation I’ve dated these people in that age bracket simply because that’s who was interested. At first I thought we’d have zero in common, but aside from some pop cultural unawareness, we got along genuinely and I had a lot of fun in those few relationships. Now I would not be able to go quite as low as my daughter’s ages 18-23), I have much less of a problem with the girls I mentioned. If you’re both attracted to one another, or even love, I say go with it because happiness is so important…. And falling in love is a blessing.

BlondeGoneWild · Answer

I’ve had sex with a lot of guys around my dads age and even older. It’s always been a massive turn on for me

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

Unlikely. That’s too big of an age gap.

megabamse · Answer

I felt weird the first time i was with someone younger then my little sister that is 5 years younger then me. But then i just eeh it's fine.

Andres77 · Answer

Sick as fuck. Kneecap that sick fuq

SmokyOne · Answer

I think I'd keep it to 25 and up just based on maturity. When I see it on public though it looks gross.

Still-alive · Answer

Id feel weird with anyone below age 20 but after I feel ok with.

Godsvengeance · Answer

Sure, I would see no problem with this

Fuentes · Answer

I don't think i would be doing that at all if i had adult children and was single but a lot men do it all the time.

nawtee_me · Answer

I don't think it is weird at all. My kids used to bring their friends around all of the time. There friends used to just come hang out and sometimes when my kids were not home they would hang out and wait for them to get back home. I have no issues with age because I have always had younger kids hanging out at the house. They say hey if they see me at the store and come hug me... It is normal for me...

Guardian45 · Answer

Reality is that this is happening and has been happening for centuries all over the world. As long as they're two consenting adults, then it's nobody's business but their own. How anyone else feels is irrelevant. Age is a number.