Why does my boyfriend not want to have sex with me?
Now every time since then he doesn’t want to have sex with me. Side note: I have a high libido, very high, I could have sex everyday. I try and try to initiate sex with him but he keeps brushing it off saying “Not yet, I’m low in testosterone, but we’ll have sex soon”
But the thing is, is that he masturbates (not often but at least twice or once a week)
and honestly I never cared if my partners masturbated because I also masturbate. It’s just frustrating because when he masturbates then he doesn’t want to have sex. I just don’t understand why he rather masturbate then actually have sex with me.
There have been many times where we would make out and I was hint towards sex and he’s say no. And the moment I leave to go home. He masturbates.
i can’t help but feel like the problem is me. It makes me very insecure, like I’m not sexy enough. Or that I’m bad at sex. But I always ask him what I can do to improve and he’s says there is nothing for me to improve, and that I’m already good.
I don’t know how to feel about it anymore, I feel disappointed, sad, insecure, angry, and emptiness. I try to stay neutral and pretend like it doesn’t bother me, but it really does bother me.
I would really appreciate to get another mans insight on why my boyfriend would rather masturbate then have sex with me.
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