Guys, if your girlfriend had a legitimate reason to wear a shirt during sex, would you be okay with it?

I know most men will say no, but I have a circumstance that most women don’t fall under. I’m 25, a virgin and halfway through my 150 pound weight loss journey. I know I’ll have some loose skin on my belly. I’m nervous it will sag to the point it will cover my vagina or shrink up that my stomach will look wrinkly.

I’m using a lot of oils and intense routines to reduce it as much as I can. I know this will be a turn off. I’ve been heavily considering remaining a virgin for the rest of my life because I won’t have a body like most women. I know it’s best for me to wear a shirt or corset to hide it. I don’t want a guy to see it and I know he’d be turned off. If your girlfriend had this issue, would you be okay with her wearing a shirt during sex?
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Superb Opinion

  • Girl, if you are trying your best to look your best, the right guy will appreciate that. You should just focus on finding the right guy who will love you for you :) they wouldn't care if you wore a shirt or what you looked like without it. The point is, your trying your hardest to look your best, which in turn should make you feel your best. Good luck on the rest of your journey! I know you can do it :)

Most Helpful Guys

  • I’d be ok with a work in progress. We all are, one way or another. If you are self conscious and wearing a shirt helps you get through the first time with someone who loves you and cares enough about your comfort and peace of mind, that shouldn’t be a problem. You might find that breast stimulation is a huge turn on, which is notoriously more difficult (but not impossible, where there’s a will there’s a way) with a shirt on, but in the end it’s up to you.

  • It is a valid reason. It is not a legitimate issue because the real reason is you are not comfortable with your body.

    I can tell you most men won't mind, but the one that needs to be comfortable with your body is you. If you just feel that is not happening then I would advise you to get professional help

Most Helpful Girl

  • I mean theirs definitely cute lingerie corsets that cover your stomach and showcase your boobs if you wanna keep it more sexier than a t-shirt. Plus the guy won’t know how to take it off lol. Savage X Fenty has some.

    • There is*

    • Some guys know how to get corsets off😄 Ren Faire and steampunk nerds of the world unite!!!

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Maybe, you should tell the reason so he would know was he is going into.

  • Just turn off the lights. I'll find what I am looking for.

    • 🤣🤣🤣

  • Are you exaggerating when you say it will sag over your vagina?

    • If you're not then I wouldn't mind if my girlfriend wore a shirt during sex as long as it makes her feel more comfortable but I would rather her not wear one as I would like her to be able to feel open with me during an intimate moment.

  • There is no legitimate reason for that are you gonna shower too with a shirt on

  • As long as you feel comfy you can do as makes you happy

  • there is no legit reason

    • Did you read the text? I promise I’m not trying to smart or an ass, I’m genuinely curious.

  • Sure I don't see the problem

  • My girlfriend was 280lbs when she began weightloss.

    She has a bit of excess skin now which isn't the nicest thing in the world to look at but she fully removes her clothes during sex as in her mind I should accept her however her body is and I agree.