So your lover says they love you but they prefer you to look different downstairs despite you telling them you don't want to change your appearance?
So a Conversation I had today brought me back to a situation long ago where a lover had more than once stated he loved the full bush look. He would beg me to let my lady parts grow wild. Its a style I detest having. I don't like the look or the feel and it makes me feel unclean. To please him I met him halfway. I gave myself a little happy trail/strip landing that ended an inch above the start of the lips. The lips and panty line I kept bare. It eased his pleading but every so often he would send me nudes or porn Requesting for what he found more pleasing. Long story short one day during a very stressful time for me he sent a nude and asked me if i'd consider doing that look for him and I finally snapped. I told him "Never. You are with the wrong girl. You can go find "her" though" I was so angry and hurt. He was giving me a complex. How can I be intimate with someone who wants me to look different. Was there something wrong with my lady parts? Not good enough? So Ugly perhaps she was best hidden behind bush? I even thought of going into chatrooms to find guys to send nudes of me for feedback. I pulled myself together though. Said to myself F*# this. I deserve better. I would never treat a man like this. I've known men between the sizes of 2.5 inches to 10. I accepted them how they were. I Told myself I'm a beautiful good woman and my Cu#t is just as gorgeous. If he doesn't appreciate my goods his lost. I'll just find myself a good man who would...
So how would you respond in such a situation? Do you think I could have handled the situation back then differently?
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