2 mo

If you’re getting to know someone and on the verge of dating them, but they sleep with someone else during that period, would you still pursue?

DizzyDesii
I was watching a show and the guy called it quits because the girl screwed someone while trying to build up something with him as well. It wasn't cheating since they both knew they were getting to know others, but i do find it disrespectful.
She got mad at him for finding out and at the other guy for possibly ratting her out. But you’d think she’d be mad at herself for even doing it or keeping it secret. She claims it no one elses business what she does but i feel others should be told that they’re not the only one you’re likely banging within a short period of time. What if one of them would’ve caught something or given her something?
I’m glad he had the standards to walk away. But I dont expect others to agree and just want to see where everyone stands. I’ve stated before that I’m not for casual sex and have to be in a longterm relationship to consider sex. If he just goes around banging people while getting to know me, I wouldn't be able to take him seriously. I’d assume he lacks patience and/or acts on impulse and easily gives into temptation. #FeelFreeToList #RomancingTheStone
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2 mo
On another show, the guy slept with two girls and told the third, “But you’re the one i love THE MOST.” Lmao she wanted to save sex til later in the relationship and he thought by telling her thag, he’d still get to hit. She had so called standards and broke up with him. But she came back like a month later and is now dating him 🤣 I guess she just needed time to make sure he was “clean” again
2 mo
To go into more detail about this first scenario… So its a show similar to the Bachelor/ette, so of course all of the men know she's dating them/getting to know them. Bt i just find it disrespectful that you sleep with em (especially so early on in the show) and expect more than a handful of guys/girls to still Want to date you. Of course she felt no shame and said she was an adult and could do adult things but still. She had no respect for the other suitors in my opinion
If you’re getting to know someone and on the verge of dating them, but they sleep with someone else during that period, would you still pursue?
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