Do you have any bad experiences with good looking people?

[Anonymous]

My first horrible experience was during elementary school. There was a guy who was the most good looking guy in class, which made many girls wanna talk to him. I didn’t talk to him because I’m not interested in him, then due to the fact I was the only girl not attracted to him, he decided to make a move on me. Me and him were 10 year olds at that time. He was flirting with me every day but I turned him down. After that, he decided to touch me without asking me for permission as a way to get my attention, I became traumatised by the situation. Then I saw him bragging to his best friend about how he successfully touched my body, he’s also thinking of touching my butt when I turn 12 years old. I wondered where he learned how to behave in this way. When I was 12, I was very unlucky I ended up in the same class as him again.

He recognised me, he tried to talk to me and I told him to leave me alone and that I don’t want anything to do with him, guess what he say next? He asked me if I can go to his house since his parents are at work, since he wanted me to act out a sexual act with him he saw in one of the R rated movies he watched. I didn’t believed him as I think there’s no way he watched it. He took out his phone he was using the original IPhone at that time and click on the movie, he skipped to the sex act where the guy was kissing and touching a woman’s breast, both were completely naked. He admitted he was jealous and he wanted me to be his girlfriend. He even said he would love to do this to me in his bed and he wants to hear my cute moans. I wanted to cry because I couldn’t take it but I didn’t want to because I didn’t wanna make a scene. I was so afraid to tell my parents and my Teachers about him. He thinks just because he’s hot he can get away with it fuck him! Up till now I refused to date a good looking guy it’s because of this bad experience!

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Never…

On the contrary, they always tried to chase me in school, because I was raised in the family of highly attractive males and I didn’t really care or pay attention to handsome guys in school, I guess they were intrigued how could I resist them and they chased me to find out.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I read your story from the beginning to the end. When I was 8-9, I was a tomboy and my mom dressed me skirts, I always sat with my legs open because I was small I didn’t care, all the guys liked to sit in front of my desk and they’d pretend there was a pen on the floor so they’d bend over to look under my skirt, I was too young to realize and I just realized later why there was a pen under my desk all the time 🤣 Lol I didn’t get traumatized by this, I just laugh about it when I remember, cause I was too young and didn’t understand at that time. However, I can see someone pushing you to have sex with him can really be traumatizing. It happened to me when I was 20, I was virgin, not interested in him and I was really scared and that guy was a huge creep. I stood up for myself and let him know he couldn’t push me to do anything I didn’t want him to do and to get out of my sight. However, I was worried to meet him again, because we stayed in the same hotel and I didn’t feel safe. I understand how you feel, just let him know, you are not interested. I don’t think that guy is a huge pervert, because being attracted to you doesn’t mean perversion, however I think he’s a creep for keeping to ask you for sex when you already showed you are not interested. Be strict to him and scare him away from you. I love scaring men mistake me for a weak, shy girl. 😉 Oh boy, I am not… And they’d better not see my bad side, I can be worse than white dressed girl from Japanese Horrors. So, show him the strength of your decision and show him he CAN’T keep disturbing you ❤️

[Asker]

Thank you for your advice. I was a little scared when I was 10, but the fact that he asked me to have sex with him when me and him were both 12 was the scariest thing I ever faced. No one was there to defend me or tell him to get lost, as they were too busy talking with their friends and his friends thought it’s just harmless flirting. When I asked him why he’s so interested in me, he replied because I was cute. He also asked me if me and him can go somewhere alone to watch R rated movies on his phone during lunch break he also wants to try touch my body when he gets so turn on, I told him I preferred to go to lunch alone. He was a little pissed, and he went back to his friends but on the next day he flirts with me again as though I didn’t piss him off.

[Asker]

I didn’t expect a guy so young can commit sexual harassment I always thought it was grown men.

[Asker]

He even tried to kiss me once, but he missed the next minute he was lying to his friends he “stole” my first kiss like what the heck.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Ahh, I can imagine how bad it feels. That creepy guy also “stole” my first kiss and I cried because of that cause I imagined my first kiss would be with someone I had feelings for. Yep, boys can be creeps at any age.

[Asker]

I don’t think the police will care because he’s only 12 years old at that time. The school decided to give a talk about sex and sexual harassment, I looked at the guy who harassed me and he had the guts to tell me “I feel sorry for them” yeah right he and his fake emotions. The way he looked at me is as though he’s innocent and thinks what he did wasn’t harassment but harmless flirting. After the harassment talk was over, he whispered in my ear, “I can’t wait for your breasts to fully develop so I can touch them, darling.”

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

What the hell, he’s such a perv!!

[Asker]

When I was 10, he didn’t dare to be a pervert it’s because the teacher was super strict and fierce and she’s very observant, like how she spotted bullying very easily when no one else in class seemed to notice. Unfortunately when I was 12, the teacher didn’t pay attention to what was happening in class unless somebody else witness something bad and tell her or the victim tells her about it. He’s been harassing me for one year, he told me if I want him to stop flirting with me I have to be his girlfriend. If only I’m attracted to him in the first place I wouldn’t have to face harassment. I was watching the news and was very shocked kids facing sexual harassment and sexual violence at a very young age, some even as young as 4.

[Asker]

Even if I were to tell the teacher, he has his friends, his “fan girls” to defend him. If the teacher believes me, everyone in class will ended up hating me, I would also lose all my friends too.

[Asker]

I was sick for 4 days, and one of his friends asked me if I’m that guy’s girlfriend. He told me he left a small pink flower on my desk, I took the flower and discarded it in the dustbin in front of everyone. That pervert and his friends were shocked. It’s not like he bought it or anything since I recognised the flower is just a random flower he stole from the bushes.

[UniquelyBasic]

Honestly, I can't remember if I did. Most were actually very pleasant and chill.

[DonkeyDan]

Yeah good looking people are ultra dicks.

[Jenny4455]

Yes, the guy who raped and abused me was beautiful