Do guys ever feel uncomfortable fucking certain girls?

[nocturnalbaby]

you know how a lot of us girls sort of take a while to feel comfortable enough with a guy before we have sex with them? and how we're a bit picky with who we're attracted to? unless it's a guy we have feelings for and have an emotional connection with, we don't often feel comfortable to have sex with a guy just because he's physically attractive. We mostly need some sort of emotional comfort or connection with a guy in addition to being physically attractive. For example, we wouldn't feel very comfortable with the idea of having sex with one of our male friends, because there's no romantic connection. We also obviously would feel really disgusted, uncomfortable & sometimes even traumatised if we had to have sex with a guy we aren't attracted to. We often even struggle to get wet & turned on if it's a guy that doesn't attract us, due to the lack of comfort.

So I was wandering, do men ever feel like this? Or are men just comfortable to have sex with any woman without feeling any sense of discomfort or disgust? I've noticed that men honestly can just feel sexually attracted to mostly any girl, and they seem to feel fully comfortable having sex with any girl, with no problems of feeling a lack of intimacy or problems with getting hard or anything like that.

[FunkyMonkee]

Only one and I DID fuck her several times back in `83 but, a few years ago, she wanted me to fuck her some more and, as much as I wanted to, I just couldn't. The only thing I can think of is that, back in `83, I WAS in love with her but, 3 years ago, I just wasn't. Other than gaining some weight, she didn't look any different, I just didn't feel the same way about her, anymore. I tried, I just couldn't force it. It didn't help that her idea of French kissing is that she opens her mouth like I'm her dentist and just lets me shove my tongue into it.

[HighlyVolatile]

I'm extremely vanilla so with women who turned out very kinky or role-playing in the bedroom, it made me a bit uncomfortable; not in the sense that I felt vulnerable or threatened or anything but I just lost the connection.

I might be a bit unusual for a guy but I also crave the sense of connection and genuineness in the bedroom. Sex for me was never a purely physical act or a release; if that's all I wanted I have a hand!

Also, girls who are either dom or teasing the dom side of me make me uncomfortable because it tends to unleash a very aggressive side of me that comes over-the-top and borderline sadistic. Yet I'm not a sadist but getting angry in those cases and I don't enjoy that feeling at all even when my partner loved unleashing that aggressive side of me.

[HighlyVolatile]

The way I always saw sex was always with a vulnerability and intimacy attached to it, like the most intimate and open of conversations. I actually sex like the truest form of communication possible between two human beings in some way. So I think that's why I get turned off quite a bit and uncomfortable when a girl is kinky or role-playing in the bedroom or giving me an impression as though she's putting on an act. The bedroom is the ultimate place where I want to see her truest self, and maybe her kinky and role-playing type of self is her truest self in a sense. I try not to judge it, but in that case, she's communicating in a style and way that doesn't make me feel connected. It starts to feel to me like she's talking at me than with me.

[HighlyVolatile]

* I actually [view] sex like the truest form of communication possible between two human beings in some way.

[Guy13]

REALLY DISAPPOINTED NOT TO SEE GIRL RESPONSES. Probably because they know the answer is”Yes, we will do it even if you are a Freak…”
-bag required.
-brain cell annihilation 🍸 x6
-go ahead please…blindfold me, get me pass out drunk…I know I’ll get stiff anyway.
-don’t paint, dress it up, or slice and dice my 🍆…. If by chance, 💋🍆 THEN beat the 💩 out of me until I wake up

[OlderAndWiser]

I don’t think most guys are attracted to any girl, unless you are talking about guys who are 14 years old. If I am physically attracted and horny, I can have sex with a girl. . . but I don’t engage in casual sex now.

[RobT312]

Yeah I think people can feel uncomfortable having sex for all sorts of reasons.
there were times I felt a little weird when it was a first with a person, not knowing her likes and dislikes, sometimes I was afraid to push it too far as I like getting adventurous in bed

[summiter]

You bring up some interesting points and I tend to agree with you. I have had sex with girls who I did not know well (one nighters) and it was still fun with some great orgasms. Some guys just want to get laid and do not care but the sex is better if some feelings are involved. What do you think?

[Berethor]

Most guys don't need a romantic connection to enjoy having sex with a girl.

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/AManIsAlwaysEager

[DonkeyDan]

Yes, I don't feel comfortable having sex with someone that I haven't formed at least a basic connection with, doesn't have to be romantic but I have to like their personality. The most amazing woman could cone up to ne and ask for sex, but if I don't like her as a person then I'm going to turn it down.

[boggboss]

Depends on the guy

[20yearsolder]

Absolutely not, number one I would never fuck someone that I was uncomfortable with. That being said, it takes a lot to make me uncomfortable. If she was drunk and coming on to me, I would feel uncomfortable because I know she would probably regret doing it the next day. Let's go with this scenario, this woman walks up and she is my type and says she's horny and wants to fuck am I going to do it? You bet your sweet ass I am and I won't be uncomfortable doing it

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

I would feel the discomfort.

[HighValue]

What you said has NOTHING to do with gender. It has to do with if the person is the type to have casual sex or not. Some people (men and women both) need an emotional connection before having sex and other people (men AND women) can have casual sex with no feelings involved.

[glennos89]

I'm very picky with who I wanna have sex with. I definitely wouldn't sleep just with any girl that easely. I need some time to feel comfortable and I wanna know what kind of person she is before I wanna have sex with her. I really wanna avoid the type of girls that are sluts at all cost so I'm very carefull with who I share the sheets

[AviatorTom]

I've never felt uncomfortable with any of the women I've been with, whether that be a one-night-stand, multiple-month relationship or 20 years of marriage.

[bowenw]

It's uncomfortable to be with someone that never seems to be satisfied or ones that don't want to try new things.

[Sam_The_Savage]

I feel comfortable fuckin all type of girls..

[Jaysonava]

Yes definitely. But less and less the more experience you have

[Hairylegs222]

For me i have to super like the girl 1st before wanting to have sex with her. At least 3 months or more of constant dating.

[TheBigGuy9]

I never let it get to that point. I flat out say I don’t want to fuck. I gave a couple pity fucks in my lifetime, but that’s it.

[Juxtapose]

As long as you don't get me to dislike you and you don't look outright ugly then I can have sex with you. That's how I roll.

[nawtee_me]

sorry to say but most guys would have sex with any girl, even if we didn't even know her name...

[GMANN56]

I would feel uncomfortable if I was related to them...
otherwise no.