Partner is away, feels distant and we haven't had sex in ages, how long is too long?
in the past month she would end up coming home from work tired and just not wanting to do anything, when it came to the evening when she was more awake, she started saying it was late or she just wanted to relax. so we didn't have sex for 2 weeks or so, she had a holiday booked to visit family as she is a teacher and it's her only time off. So we were meant to do something the night before she was flying, teased me till it became night and she ended up saying she was tired again so didn't do anything, said about a HJ, gave me one but it just wasn't the same.. and went off on holiday.
While one holiday, it's coming to an end she said about not masturbating for the week and both agreed and that when she is back on Friday she wants me badly. Had a call today and she just got her period so will be on it for a few days now while back, has said once she is off it she just simply wants cuddles/and just to relax before going back to work. So it could be till the weekend after we actually do anything if she is tired again from work.
The thing is that we both are physical people who find intimacy through touch etc. while on the call earlier she said she felt a bit distant as we haven't done anything in ages, I feel kind of the same. When she writes by text she is a cold typer, no emojis, hearts, love you's which I am guessing doesn't help, but not having sex doesn't help either, by time we may actually do something it is probably going to be a month or so
My question is how long is too long to not have sex? especially if physical touch is a love language for both of you?
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