Advice on my current friends with benefits situation?
Here's the issue, as soon as I mentioned that I like her and could see her as a potential partner, she pulled away. I also noticed she never initiates contact with me, she didn't really initiate it from the start. So basically, I have fallen in love with her and she's pretty much out the door! Should I chase or did I blow my load too early! (sorry)
Further information.
-She would always reply to my invitations with, 'I'll let you know' or 'let's go with the flow'.
- She is 31 and I am 34.
- She's a good girl, or so it would seem?
- friends with benefits situation for a few months.
-I have a 5 year old son with my ex partner, which I've told her about.
-I'm a decent looking dude, bit of a renegade at times. Decent income. Slightly under 6ft. Lol
I feel as if she has masterfully manipulated me into submission because I said we would make good friends first! Does she want to teach me a lesson? Do women do this kind of thing and if so why? Is she trying to boost her self esteem here or what? Or worst case, was she just not into me from the get go!
Hope this all makes sense! I'm ADHD, the real ADHD.
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