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Meeting someone from an online chat in person. Has anyone done so in the past? how'd it go? any tips, suggestions, advice?

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***a lot of synonyms up there lol*****
Moving on.. so for a few months I've been chatting to this guy who I met on an online chat. We initially only sexted & have sent clothed but slightly provocative pictures.. after some time we began phone calling each other & would talk for hours on end about our lives. He's wanted to become real friends but when I think of the initial interactions I admit it was a bit cringe & weird & I really don't know why I agreed. ( I'd been on the site for weeks before & always ignored the creeps). Turns out he seems like a pretty cool guy & he'll be doing groceries or at the park & call me just to talk. He's told me he's inexperienced but we haven't really discussed further & he doesn't know I'm a virgin. I've felt ready for sex but I've dealt with a lot of insecurities that I've never let anyone close enough for intimacy.. anyways he used to be a little weird when it comes to sexual things but I don't know after he told me he liked me he started sexting like romantic sexy things & not so "porn style- sexts " if that makes sense. Other than that he seems like a regular degular person. He's been honest about having anger issues in the past & how he's improved & dealt with that. Anytime I've expressed that I'm uncomfortable with something he's literally been the sweetest or has held back... & he's talked about meeting up & roadtripping ( something we've both done & are super into) & well obviously hooking up. I guess ik it'd be expected to hook up if the chemistry & attraction is there.. but I'm afraid of meeting up for the obvious meeting a stranger online... He's said like if it doesn't work we could stay friends or maybe that'd be the date & go our separate ways but he makes it seem like there's no way we wouldn't be all over each other.. so I have my reservations.
Meeting someone from an online chat in person. Has anyone done so in the past? how'd it go? any tips, suggestions, advice?
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