If your significant other were friends with a hoe, would you worry about what happens when they hang out without you?

I’m not saying that the hoe is coming onto your guy/girl but more so that they may be a bad influence and turn your guy/girl into a hoe by association or pressure them into do things a taken person shouldn't...
One of my exes got mad because I was going out of town with my hoe of a cousin lol. He legit tried to forbid me to leave the hotel and go to the club with her because he knew she’d try to bring over guys. Yet he didn't listen when I didn't want him celebrating his 21st bday at a bar with his hoe of a friend who also once brought along a girl to the movies for him to double date (when i couldnt be there) despite that hoe knowing my dude already had a girlfriend.
#FeelFreeToList #HoeByAssociation
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I wouldn't care that the friend was a hoe if the hoe didn't try to take someone down with them, but they almost always do. One person even used to lie and say they were staying elsewhere just so no one else would know where they actually were. Then when those people ask you where they were and you’re not aware of the plan to LIE as well, you’re left lookin stupid 🤣
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  • My wife enjoys gardening, but, if she became friends with her hoe, I would become deeply concerned about her psychiatric state and wonder if she was becoming psychotic.

    If your significant other were friends with a hoe, would you worry about what happens when they hang out without you?If your significant other were friends with a hoe, would you worry about what happens when they hang out without you?
    • If your significant other were friends with a hoe, would you worry about what happens when they hang out without you?

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  • I wouldn't date a person who I greatly trust. They're their own person, be friends with whoever you want to be. I've myself been friends with players in the past. Still am. A high body count doesn't automatically mean they have something wrong with them, or they'd put moves on their friends. They won't. It's a large sea, plenty of fishes.

  • Well I would not marry someone who even goes clubbing or does any of that stuff. I’m on the market for marriage and not dating and the type of men I’ll ever consider aren’t into that life so I have nothing to worry about. Of course I would hate if they went out with their hoe friend that’s why I move in orthodox circles only.

    • I agree

Most Helpful Guy

  • I can see how it would be a concern, but it’s a trust issue. in those situations I trust my girlfriend, I don’t hold her back in any way and confident enough we have a strong relationship. ... do I get suspicious of the hoe friend, yes! But I stay out of it and don’t get involved

    • Makes sense

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  • No, my wife already formed her values very strongly. I think she's immune to such influences. If she wasn't immune, maybe I should question our marriage, but I'm pretty sure she is.

    • Yea she needed to be immune before finalizing a marriage

    • I think in her case, she was like that even growing up: very firm and strong in her values, and not swayed by associations that challenged them or what's trendy. It's one of the things I love about her and so the last thing I need to worry about is her compromising her values and ideals from external influences.

  • That's where trust comes in... Either you trust your SO or you don't... Just knowing/hanging around a hoe shouldn't matter, ultimately everyone responsible for their own actions/behavior...

  • I would not worry at all, it would be fine. I would trust him.

  • I would dump you on day 1. Unless I had some kind of fetish for dating lying whores.

    • By the way if you ever want to be able to keep a man & build quality relationships, read A Note On Giving Trust ↗ -- Trust is a two-way street and it has to be earned. Everything/anything you do can affect it.

    • Why are you saying you’d dump me? Its a hypothetical question for men and women to answer. I wouldn't date another person who hid hoe friends

    • *had

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  • Absolutely... we aren't born hoes, probably someone influenced us and they fear it can again... sometimes the thug life choose us, we we choose it. But in the right environment, mix of intoxication and hoe tendencies from one person can have a domino effect.

    • Lmao

  • Hoebyassociation...😂 😂 😂

    • Its a thang man

    • (adds to list of Dizzy-isms)

  • Maybe, hoes can't be trusted.

    • Right

  • I don't care

  • No worries, no.

  • Yes I would be concerned. Especially if they go to places where infidelity happens a lot, like bars or clubs.

  • I don't worry about such, her childhood friend is a swinger and they can be out together all they want, am not worried, i trust my woman

    • Damn lmao. What if one day your wife came home suggesting you guys swing with another couple

    • I can say she will never do that, i know her way to well

  • He doesn't has such friends. He does hang out with female friends sometime, but I do not worry. They know each other ever since they are kids. If they wanted to fuck, they would have.

  • Nope

  • "a person is known by the company they keep." If she's friends with a ho, likely she's lived the same lifestyle up to me... 🤢

    • I can't say birds of a feather flock together but if theyre weakminded and the type to do whatever to stay in the “in crowd” then yea

  • I don't think I would mind more than if it were with any other person. If a partner wants to go somewhere else, sooner or later they will anyway.

    • True

  • Nah. I trust my man

  • The one im w rn, i can trust her n both ways like loyal to me n also knows how to deal w stuff. So i guess id say no

  • No not my wife. I fully trust her.

    • But Would you trust her friend

  • If someone breaks there trust with me it's cool il just brush my shoulders off and keep it moving and everyone makes there own choices in life regardless if we have hoe hoe for friends lol 🤣!

  • It'd probably pop into my head at some point yeah.

    I mean you are the company you keep.

    • I kinda disagree with that but i feel it depends on if the person is a wannabe

    • I've been around enough people to see that people influence other people, especially groups of them. And I've sadly seen people get badly influenced by bad people.

    • I agree i have too. Bt im saying that my cousins hoeing never affected me because i could think for myself. But her friends who wanted to impress her and be like her were easily influenced

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