Is it normal to feel very insecure when my boyfriend said he wanna c*m on someone's boobs?

[Anonymous]

He's always a joking man. I've always known and I don't really care much. We are always open to everything, for example we walk past and see a woman in a nice dress. He would openly compliment her in front of me like "wow look at her... she wears very nice dress, it suits on her" so I don't really mind about that. I also talk openly with him about some guys too. even dirty talk (We like to talk dirty) But I don't care much. because it's not too much for me.

Then today we scrolled through the phone and saw a picture of a woman in a bikini. I said that she was very beautiful and she had a nice body. (She's really pretty) and he said, "Yeah, she's pretty, I want to c*m on her boobs" that made me stun. But I've known that he likes to joke about anything so I tried to made it funny like... "ok if you want to"

I hope the conversation was over. I scrolled my phone to something else. suddenly he asked me that "really are u serious?" "You don't mind?"

That's just too much and annoyed me. I said "yeah you can do whatever you want, if you want to c*m on her boobs just do it" he smiled and kept asking me "really?" "Are u sure?" Etc.

I felt very very insecure for no reason then I started crying. He seemed very shocked and asked me what's going on. We always joking like this all the time then suddenly you're crying

I told him I felt insecure about this. I don't know why. It just happened then he said sorry to me

So I don't know why I feel this way. I know it's not a big problem. He didn't go to fuck her

My question is... is it normal to feel insecure with your partner (for example like this situation) and if this situation happens to you, what are you gonna do? or what do you think about this 😓😔

[bowenw]

If you two are in a serious relationship it's disrespectful to you for him to say he wants to cum on another woman's boobs. If you felt hurt you should let him know. Honesty and open communication are important. If he doesn't stop saying things like that, try saying things yourself, like when you see a good looking guy, say to your boyfriend you'd like to swallow that guy's cum.

[summiter]

This time his joking went too far. Do not encourage him either. He will keep doing it if you also laugh or don't seem to care. It is ok and normal to talk about sex but everyone reacts differently. How is your sex life with him? Do you live together?

[Confidentandchill]

I think he maybe did push it too far! He should have left it as a joke. To make him feel better maybe try to be part of his fantasy so he gets it off his mind

[Anonymous]

Yeah that's not okay