My boyfriend told me I don’t arouse during sex. is he bored of me ?

[Anonymous]

Guys when someone says this does it mean I’m not naturally a turn on to him anymore? Is been a while since we have a issue with him keeping his erecting during sex. We been together for 10 years and this didn’t happened before. Today I went over to his house and we was having sex. I notice that he doesn’t get hard rock for me anymore. He gets hard then soft during penetration and during sex. He still fucks me and cums. But he definitely getting soft during the time we have sex
I didn’t say anything until I notice 3rd round I was sucking him and his dick wouldn’t stay hard, like it gets hard then slowly gets softer and I have to get it harder. He told me to get in doggy so I did and while he was trying put it in I notice he was less hard , he was even having trouble putting it in. I said really? You not hard.. “ you’re not into it “ we had already talked about this many times and all he does is argue back and say he do like it and lately he has admit he do get soft
but tonight he said that I don’t arouse him and that I don’t “ fuck him back “. I said all these years you never said that now you want say this. He said that I don’t do nothing to arouse him but I but new lingerie for him. I try to be in nice shape and I also suck him up. I told him clearly my body don’t turn you on and even when he touch my body his dick isn’t hard. Doesn’t that let me know something? He also said that I don’t move my hips in doggy. Honestly guys I don’t have the biggest ass I don’t know how to move my ass that much. I told him. “ I’m not like those porn girls with a huge ass “ “ so if you watching that or fucking someone else that’s actually fucking u back , then clearly you not into me “ . I probably sayinh the wrong things. But he clearly said things are different now and that I don’t arouse him and that he the only one fucking. Is he just not into me?

[slatyb]

There's nothing you can do in response to a vague statement like "You don't excite me anymore." If he wants a change, he has to make specific suggestions about what works for him and what does not. It's also possible that the real problem isn't the sex but something else entirely. How committed are you to this relationship? How committed is he? If you both want it to work, you might consider getting couples counseling. If he doesn't want to do that, it may be time to end it.

[Djaay]

Sounds like what he used to do all night , now takes all night to do. Getting angry at something he himselfs is experiencing and finger pointing bc he's scared of his problem.

[Cowboy6666]

Change your boyfriend 😜

[rohitbiruli008]

True. Maybe try losing weight

[Asker]

Im only 118

[rohitbiruli008]

Then try losing age lol

[MasterKS]

sounds like that.

[Som02]

Time to visit doctor 💊