Am I right to be uncomfortable/insecure that my boyfriends bestfriend is bisexual + manipulative and in love with my boyfriend?
every intuition or feeling i’ve had, has literally been proven true each time. This guy is manipulative, wants my spot, wants me out of the picture, to make me look crazy, and wants a lot of my boyfriends attention, and even the emotional part of a relationship from my boyfriend.
i hate it. My boyfriend says it shouldn’t matter because he’s not gay (and he isn't). And that he sees the manipulative behavior he’s doing, but doesn’t hold it against him because “he might not be aware he’s being manipulative”. And also, says it doesn’t affect our relationship, and that I’m making it affect us. But thats even more manipulation on the friends behalf, NOT ME. He admitted everything this guy is doing, if it was a girl it would be a no brainer what to do. But because he’s a guy it’s acceptable.
am i wrong? This man is driving me crazy
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