Do you ever have your worst fear coming true to you in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

My first relationship was the worst. The thing I feared most came true when my ex was into rough degrading sex acts. He demanded me to perform those acts and I told him no, he refused to take no for an answer which made me cry so badly. He’s just like other guys only expecting their girlfriends to perform those sex acts which they hate and didn’t care if they find it comfortable or not. He didn’t apologise for his actions so I told him ‘you’re just like those guys you’re no different from them I guess I shouldn’t trust guys after all’. I think it’s extremely hard to find a grown man who’s not into those extreme sex acts depicted in porn where pornstars were to paid to do the act which is not meant to be done in real life. My other friend told me most men are like that once they watch porn they are 100% more likely to expect you to do those sex acts, they will not care if you like it or not. Even if you don’t want to do, they will get upset and moody. She encouraged me to stay single since there’s no such thing as a man who doesn’t expects a woman to act out what pornstars are doing. I’m more into intimate, gentle sex acts where I will feel loved rather than feel like a sex toy. Maybe I should stay single after all so I don’t have to get hurt again.

[Anonymous]

I’m sorry you had to go through that, I’m glad you got out of that relationship though. For me, my worst fear is getting abandoned when I needed them most and yep it ended up happening lol

[Wise4myage]

Not yet, lol.

[Asker]

I see, you’re lucky.