Does having a lesbian playlist make me gay?
When I was in my early teens I had a low sex drive and never had been instantly sexually attracted to anyone. However I had a few crushes I had developed, mostly on guys but one girl when I was 15. I didn't know if it was a crush or an intense want to have close friendship because it wasn't a sexual desire. Then my sex drive increased a few years later and I lusted after guys, I tried talking to girls and thinking of them sexually but it never attracted me. So I assumed I was straight. But on a coincidence, I ended up at the same college as the girl I had a maybe crush on. And it's still not sexual but I like her more than a friend. And I do find a certain type of women attractive.
I know sexual identity has nothing to do with the kind of music you listen to. But i just found out my entire playlist consists of lesbian and queer artists. I didn't pick them for that reason, it seems to have happened by accident. Im just trying to work out if me liking guys is a learnt behaviour. Tp put it plainly I think I like guys but it seems to be purely sexual and I like girls but it seems to be not sexual but more than friends. I haven't had any experience with women though so I can't tell if I would like a sexual relationship with one.
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