Girls, would you give your boyfriend/husband a massage if you can tell he clearly needs it (after having a rough day) but never asks you?

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libsaretards · Accepted Answer

My first serious girlfriend was the one who got me into massages. I was chilling with her at her parents place. Since I worked really late and had school they were ok with me staying until midnight since I typically did not get off until 10pm. She noticed I was not holding her as tightly when I hugged her as I normally do. She said my back felt tense and made me lay down on the bed. She gave the best massage I have ever had to this day. While giving me the massage she said it was her dream to one day open her own massage therapy business.

Little_Bumblebee · Accepted Answer

Hmmm don't know if my first thought would be to give the massage, but most likely.
Especially if he's affectionate and gives me massages as well.

It's about how the relationship is, to begin with.
I hate being the giver if I feel like I'm being taken advantage of or it isn't reciprocated in some way or form.

EmmaMary · Accepted Answer

Absolutely right I would, and have indeed done so in the past... Likewise my husband has done the same for me, and will be doing even more so whilst I'm pregnant.