What are some signs that lead you to think you’re a lesbian?

[Anonymous]

Naturally, I was raised to believe that a man and a woman were to be in love and in a relationship. But anytime I’ve attempted a relationship with a man I always feel sceptical and uncomfortable and even the man’s body language or his facial expressions or how he speaks or even his man parts have always let me to be very uncomfortable and I don’t find it very inviting or exciting. I’m comfortable being by myself as I do not crave a relationship and I’m content without having physical relations with a man, and in all honesty a man has never made me orgasm either.

I’m soul-searching and wondering if I’m either a lesbian or if I am some thing that is labelled; asexual [noun]
a person who has no sexual feelings or desires, or who is not sexually attracted to anyone.
And when I look at women I generally find myself interested in a woman that is on the tomboy side with short hair sassy attitude works hard no make up but takes care of herself. Am I simply curious or is there something more here?

Come on ladies help me out here!! 😇

[Laila12]

Hi - 95% sure I’m lesbian. Firstly, I’d be ok with taking a Dick in order to have an orgasm but that’s about it. I don’t find them, or guys in general, sexually attractive.
personally, I get along better with women both as friends, partners, and sexually as well. In contrast to the male body, I do find the female body attractive.
so that’s what lead me to believe that I’m a lesbian

[Nikki1989]

I knew I was attracted to other women from the age of 8. It was confirmed when a girl kissed me at the age of 14. I have had girlfriends ever since.