Why does my boyfriend penis drop or lose erection when he about to penetrate me?

[Anonymous]

I make sure I give him a blow job before any penetration. Also he lose erection while being inside me at times. Is very noticiable. Sometimes I see him like if he was squeezing his face or making a facial expression. Is it possible to force a erecting to not get soft? If that makes sense. We already talk about this and he claims that is not me and it just happens but he only turn 30 this year. Starting to think he has someone else.

[Anonymous]

Well it can "just happen" sometimes for sure, and at any age (sometimes just our bodies doing what it wants to and no "reason" for it), but if it happens often, I think there's a reason, and maybe he doesn't know himself and is too afraid to find out? (ie seeing a doctor). There can be so many things that affect our erections. Diet, drugs, mentally distracted, stress, tiredness etc, I could go on and on. When it happens, is he able to recover fairly quickly? Maybe it's worth getting check by the doctor if it's happening often, and he truly doesn't know why?

I've had it happen a few times, but it's not often, and it's like "wtf?", but it doesn't last long and I'm hard again so?

[hellknight666]

It is possible that the giving him head before hand makes it sensitive and when he does penetrate you it could be the sensitivity overload causing g him to go down

[nomandik]

Sounds like to me you need to wait to suck them off after sex that's the only thing I can think of

[KostasKouvalis]

He's nervous

[KostasKouvalis]

Or penetration doesn't arouse him. Maybe he needs manual stimulation

[coffeecacao]

Hardness is not easy for guys to control at all

[MasterKS]

call for a doctor.