What would your reaction be if your wife says you can't satisfy me?

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AFretiredTXn · Accepted Answer

I can't satisfy my wife with PIV intercourse. I don't think I ever have in 40+ years. I just have never found the right position or stamina to do it.
BUT I do know that I definitely can make her hit her orgasmic feeling while giving her oral down there in her warm juicy pussy. She squirms and moans and locks her legs around my head as she reaches that level. Then I can feel that gush of warm juice fill my mouth and throat.
I love it too.

TheorionMage · Accepted Answer

You reply: "And WHAT HAVE YOU DONE to SHAMELESSLY 'school' me to satisfy you?"
YOU weren't 'there' BY YOURSELF! It takes AT LEAST two participants!
YOU KEPT SILENT--- Can't get better, if I don't get constructive criticism!

Breanna_nonbinary · Accepted Answer

If your husband can’t satisfy you then he’s obviously not doing things right. Or doesn’t care about your orgasm. If that’s the case then just tell him. If he cares then he’ll make an effort to make sure you are.
With all of my lover and with my wife I make sure that they’re satisfied before I even think about cumming. Usually I make them orgasm several times before I do just because I enjoy making them cum.

DataOrganizer27 · Accepted Answer

Depends on how it comes across for me. If my partner said "hey, you're just not doing it for me" I'd be kind of upset.

But if we sat down and talked about it respectfully and they said "hey, I want us both to be having a grand ole time in the bedroom. I like when you do this but it kind of turns me off when you do this," I'd handle it no problem.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I would ask her why she married me.

Slingblade1126 · Answer

Probably wouldn't have much of a reaction. With words like that, it pretty much sets the stage for cheating or even a possible admission of cheating.

lightbulb27 · Answer

Tell me more... time to get creative, there's more than one way to "skin a cat".  she's just communicating...

DonkeyDan · Answer

Say "well your sister seemed pretty satisfied the other night" 🤣
Nah not really, but ut would be funny for 2 seconds until she punches me in the balls 😂
I'd be pretty concerned, as we talk about what we want, and what is and isn't working all the time. So for her to just come out and say that would be out of place, and I'd actually think that maybe something else was up.

Nmdr3 · Answer

Ask her what she needs and do it. My SO and I have opposite sexual needs so can be frustrating.

AviatorTom · Answer

We'd have a serious discussion of what she desires, and I would do my best to satisfy that desire.

talka20 · Answer

Id be sad n mad n disappointed n frustrated

exitseven · Answer

I would be really surprised if she told me that I could.

cyclist89 · Answer

Drop on the knees and it's time for some thong job. I hope she would not tell me that after I cum inside her. lol

Shedzij567 · Answer

That must be bad. Then again he should have realized it

ArtemisSilver · Answer

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Andres77 · Answer

Keep eating her pussy until she can't speak.

libraboy · Answer

Not a nice thing to hear of course! I'd feel gutted, depressed and at the same time work on myself, ask her if there's a way I can satisfy her. I won't be aggressive or abusive to her at all, I'd appreciate her honesty no matter how painful it is.

Adronicus · Answer

Crushed, I take MUCH pride in my abilities to please my partner; that's more important to me than mine in a way.

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

I would tell her to show me how to satisfy her.

ImNoOne111 · Answer

Well, I dont have a wife, so I assume my girlfriend. I would be surprised as she qas enjoying it until today. I would just think I messed up last time or I was being lied to all this time. In conclusion, nothing good