Guys and Girls how would you feel getting married to someone who just married you because they have a fetish for your race?

[FinalFantasyBro]

Ok just imagine you are an Asian guy or if you really are an Asian guy how would you react if the person who has married you didn't married you because you have a nice personality or they generally loved spending time with you no. They just marry you because they have an Asian Man Fetish how would you feel about hearing that?

Or imagine if you are a White girl or if you actually is a white girl basically the same apply here somebody decided to marry you because they have a White Woman fetish and they didn't really cared for your personality or getting to know each other no just gotten married to fullfil the other person sexual fantasies. How would you feel about this?

I honestly wouldn't be thrilled knowing that a girl just married me because she has watched black man porn and immediately assumed my dick is just as big feels kinda dehumanizing but what about you ladies and gentlemen how would you feel about having a significant other who only gotten married with you simply for the fact they have a sexual kink for your own race and didn't marry you for you not even in the slightest?

[DizzyAster2]

Marriages and sexual fetishes are NOT the same thing. You can marry for love and commitment, and fuck to freaky shit.
That's a, "between those two, and everyone else can fuck off" thing.

I don't mind people who do race play, where someone plays the slave during sexy time. However, I don't want to hear about what goes on in their bedroom.

[FinalFantasyBro]

I think you are confusing my question, I wasn't saying that the person has something like a raceplay fantasy but that's wasn't why they marry you. No they simply married you sorely for the racial kink they didn't married you for you as a person but as a sexual fantasy.

[DizzyAster2]

Anyone who gets married for that is an idiot.

[Dargil]

I married an East Asian girl. It is a fetish? No, but I agree that her aesthetics were and are compelling. If you marry, you should know more things you like and not rely on aesthetics.

[FinalFantasyBro]

Agree a person should at least try to get to know more about the person other besides their physical appearance otherwise you just a shallow individual

[Dargil]

... and a marriage on that basis is doomed to fail.

[FinalFantasyBro]

Exactly

[DataOrganizer27]

Yeah no, I'm good on the whole fetish for race thing. If we're together you've gotta like me for me, not for my race or any other outside factors. If you like those too, then cool. But if that's it, what's the point of the relationship? I'm a human, not a trophy.

[FinalFantasyBro]

Yes I definitely understand it's really ridiculous but unfortunately there are people who are like that

[DataOrganizer27]

I know, it's definitely unfortunate. And they're never honest about it either, they'll go the ends of the earth pretending to love you for any other reason other than that. I've learned to watch out for that.

[FinalFantasyBro]

Good thing you definitely now watch out for imposters

[Ms_Facesitter]

The marriage will fall apart if it's just for my appearance

[FinalFantasyBro]

Would you divorce the person if they can't get passed your physical appearance?

[Ms_Facesitter]

We wouldn't even get to marriage, n'or a relationship

[FinalFantasyBro]

Yes same here, if I dated a girl and she said she didn't love me just my package that is immediate breakup situation.

[ShadowMonarch]

The thing is marriage isn't all about sex...
It has many more things to it... and marrying someone because of a fetish is the most stupid thing you can do...

[FinalFantasyBro]

You be surprised how many people exist who is like that practically married for a fetish and non much else

[Lliam]

If I married someone like that I would be pretty fucking stupid, wouldn't I? I mean it would be totally my fault for being that gullible and clueless.

Getting into a relationship is one thing, but marriage is the most serious decision we ever make. You have to be 100% certain about your partner before making that commitment.

[RobT312]

That would suck…. it wouldn’t take long to figure that out, and I wouldn’t be with that person , definitely not marry them

[Slingblade1126]

A girl let me fuck her because I'm Mexican/Irish. She was on a mission to have sex with a guy of every nationality. She said with me, she could kill two birds with one "dick"!

[FinalFantasyBro]

Haha I bet the sex must feel great or weird in your eyes

[Slingblade1126]

She was actually a riot! She was my friend's friend from high school. She was visiting from out of state and we hit it off right away.

[NathanDavis]

I just would not marry at all with this person in the first place... not because of a fetish, lol

[FinalFantasyBro]

What would be the reason you wouldn't marry that person if it's isn't about that fetish

[NathanDavis]

what I meant to say is... I would not marry someone JUST because that someone has a fetish I do happen to fit in... lol

[DonkeyDan]

I wouldn't marry someone like that.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

This would just make me wonder if they would really love me

[FinalFantasyBro]

You may or may not,. remember the person he to bury their crazy lust on order to actually find you appealing as a person and not some sick fantasy.

[moonpie89]

So disgusting

[Fuentes]

I would know if it was a fetish or not before hand

[msc545]

I wouldn't do it

[Anonymous]

Seems harmless to me. Most marriages fail anyways.