If you knew your partner wanted a sex act really badly but it makes you uncomfortable/sorta grosses you out, what do you do?

Hold your nose and do it to it
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  • depends on how much it grosses me out. i have hard limits. nothing with feces or blood. if it's not those hard limits, i'll do it for them.

  • I'd try my best to work through it.

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  • It depends- is it "I don't really want to do that" or "I really don't want to do that"? If it's just iffyness and not disgust, I'll probably give it a try.

  • Plain and simple, if you want to stay in a monogamous relationship, you do it. It is not my favorite thing to bury my face in my girl’s crotch, but I do it because I know how much pleasure it brings her, and that alone turns me on. And I am sure gagging on my dick and swallowing my cum is not her favorite thing either, but she does it because she knows how much pleasure it gives me. That is how a monogamous sexual relationship is supposed to work.

  • Really depends what it is she's asking, if it involves actual shit, she can fuck right off. If its just licking her ass out, well I do that anyway, if she is clean.

  • I mean if you are “plugging your nose” … you need to dump him or tell him to clean up. Because that is gross and you should be grossed out by it!

  • If Im on the fence about a certain sexual act then Ill give it a try at least once.

  • Depends on what the act is

  • If it really grosses you out then i wouldn't do it, i mean what happens if they are really into it, they will want you to do it constantly.

  • I will do it for them

  • Its a give and take. Lets face it, I know the stuff I like she isn't going to want to do all the time and vice versa, but there's no shame in doing something 100% for them especially if you know you'll get it back later

  • There should be an option C: quid pro quo. I might do it but she’s got to do something I want too.

  • Depends. I seriously doubt I could ever be persuaded to try eating poop, and I like to think I'm pretty open to trying stuff. I wouldn't care if she was into that sort of thing, but I'm not doing it ^^

  • I think everyone should try everything at least twice, once to determine if you like it in the second time to make sure. Lol if your lover really wants to try something maybe you should try getting your head around it just to see, who knows you might like it. I think making love you have to keep an open mind

  • Men generally will be as kinky as their wives want to be.

  • I'll do anything that isn't like nasty gross: shit/piss/blood/extreme pain... just a weird kink wouldn't bother me though. I'll try most stuff once, because you never know if you might end up liking it too

  • Depends on what it is I suppose.

  • i dont know, never been in situation like that

  • Break up

  • It's about making each other Happy

  • You need to sit down with your companion and work out the taboo. And find out what his reasonings are. Communications is the most important part of a relationship. If communications is lost so is the relationship.

  • It depends, I would try to make her happy unless it was very disgusting and weird.

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