How do shy girls get comfortable for being naked and having sex?

I'm a really shy girl, and when I think about intimacy, it's like I'd never do it. Like it feels unbelievable.
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  • Well it’s a theme now but I am goi g to say the same thing. Haha!
    take your time and make small steps. Try sleeping naked by yourself first maybe even looking at yourself in a mirror and touching yourself. If you have a boyfriend ask him to be patient and let you do little things like cuddling under a blanket where you can’t see one another’s bodies.
    have you had sex yet?
    take small steps with that too! Maybe just giving oral to o another while you are both clothed. And then working to enjoying sex fully naked in a few weeks.

Most Helpful Guy

  • A good, gentle, considerate man will help. You can request that the lights be off, and be under a sheet. I had a girlfriend for a year who would not remove her shirt (she was insecure about her lack of breasts—and did not believe me when I told her I like flat-cheated women—I really do!).

    so we would have sex, but her shirt was always on. I would cum on the shirt, she would replace it. That said, I always did whatever she wanted.

    men will do anything for sex. Keep that in mind

Most Helpful Girls

  • Just get horny enough you will loosen up.
    I've never been shy of my entire body but my nipples and pussy I was super shy of. My nipples were too big according to me and my vagina is not ideal and I hated it but after my first boyfriend I didn't mind again being nude in front of anyone. I am the one even all my guy friends have seen nude

    • Big nipples are loved by most guys. Great for me. And pussies come in many looks, but most of us find them all beautiful and sexy. Your guy friends are very lucky to have all seen you nude!

  • Umm as a shy girl myself definitely takes time but I promise once you past through having sex and telling yourself that your body is beautiful then it will be a piece of cake.
    And if your of age taking a shot or 2 helps loosen up more

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  • It’s about taking things very slowly.

    not being naked only for sex.

    Have it for when just sleeping together but no sex, just cuddling up

    Get used to each other.

    the guy really needs to be patient and understanding.

  • just keep the lights off and under the blankets until you are

  • When you find someone you really like you aren’t shy with them. They make you feel comfy and safe.

  • Full send just go for it

  • Get a pleasant and understanding guy who is willing to explore with you.

  • You get used to it with time.

  • Would it help if you had a confident man to take control in that situation?

  • Just spend more time naked around your home and work your way up to being naked around other people. You have to get comfortable with your body.

  • When the guy makes you feel comfortable.

  • they do it despite being shy. that's all there is to it.

  • Start with with wearing more revealing clothes and go from there

  • Let the guy take the lead and undress you, believe me, he will be amazed and have an awe look in his eyes as he is admiring you. given he is worth having sex with.

  • I have dated a shy girl. Its mostly your partner's job to make you open up. Surely you can do things too but it all involves trust, feeling of being wanted. The sooner you open up the less he gets annoyed with it. I don't want you to feel any pressure for it, its how you are

  • It feels the same way to me.

    The key is developing a deep, genuine, committed relationship with someone and falling in love with them.
    That's why you're supposed to wait to have sex.

  • I think you can open up virtually or anonymously at the beginning to gain a bit of confidence and then gradually let yourself openup with yourself, like being comfortable nude, and comfortable playing with yourself and then encorporating it with virtual world, anomiously while growing that xonfidence you need. A slow process but definitely a doable. Best of luck 🤞

  • I think you need to work on your self confidence.

  • Very, very gradually. Take baby steps.

  • Confidence. Shyness, is DIRECTLY related to how confident someone is. So the more confident you feel, the more likely you'll be able to show off your body and have sex

  • Any guy who wants to date you wants to see you naked. Virtually every guy likes how girls look naked. Unless you have some severe deformity, he will like seeing you naked. I can't explain how much guys like seeing naked girls, but it's far more than you can imagine. He will like how you look naked, I guarantee it. He already likes how you look clothed.

  • It just takes getting used to. Start slowly and increase over time. Eventually you'll get comfortable with nudity.

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