Ex boyfriend used to masturbate constantly even though we had sex at least or twice everyday?

[Billiegirl]

We were together for 6 years and I am extremely devastated that he left me. Seriously the best sex I've ever had, he was sweet to me, cuddled with me often, accepted my random weirdness. The only issue I had in the relationship that caused it to end was my insecurities. I was already insecure, but I somehow ended up even more insecure with the man who obviously loved me because he constantly masturbated to porn. And I would understand if the reason he masturbated was because i didn't give him enough sex.. but I did. We had sex every single day almost and a lot of the time I would give it to him more than once a day. But after I would leave for work or go to sleep, he would be on porn masturbating. Sometimes he would even masturbate AFTER a bj or sex. And yes, I believe he did always ejaculated, because I would feel/watch it run out of me.. It really ate at me until I resented him. And I hated feeling like that because I know that he has a right to do whatever he wants with his body. But I really felt like I wasn't satisfying him. I looked around on the internet and i saw where a lot of guys said that if they were having very frequent good sex, they wouldn't masturbate very often or at least not as much. I had sex with this man everyday and he still masturbated everyday. I am heartbroken. Does this mean he wasn't satisfied with the sex I gave him everyday for years? Why else would he masturbate like that?

[Smoke-n-Growls]

He's just addicted to getting himself off. My last two male partners were like that. Honestly, I think it's just what most men do.

A lot guys have a stupid high sex drive. And are porn addicts.

I think it's less to do with you and more with him. That said, did you ever really talk to him about it?

[Billiegirl]

I really tried to talk to him about it and he would get annoyed and shut me out and threaten to leave me. My self esteem is so low now. I really think it's because my vagina doesn't feel good inside and doesn't do its job the way it's supposed to.

[bananathunder]

exactly... probably had nothing to do with her at all. She was doing all she could

[Billiegirl]

@bananathunder I really honestly think it's because my vagina doesn't feel good inside and doesn't do its job the way it's supposed to. Or maybe my body is bad? But he would get hard very easily for me, so he was turned on by me. I really think the problem lies with my vagina..

[bananathunder]

message me if you want to chat. I might be able to explain better

[summiter]

Bille,
As you know all young guys masturbate a lot (but most will never admit it). You did nothing wrong and in fact it sounds like you had a great sex life with him. Some guys just want some solo sex sometimes. What he did sounds excessive and I think you can do better. Did you talk to him about it. Maybe offer to give him some extra handjobs?

[Billiegirl]

Could it possibly be that something is wrong with my vagina to make it less satisfying than his hand?

[Billiegirl]

If I was satisfying him, why would he need to masturbate AFTER sex?

[summiter]

There is nothing wrong with your vagina. He just has a high sex drive. Do you two try for round 2 or 3 during sex. Sometimes a lot of guys want to go for a few rounds of sex. Try that!

[Anonymous]

There must something more going on. It sounds like he had a very high sex drive, because it doesn't sound normal. He wouldn't need to masturbate since you had sex that often, but it might be something else going on in your relationship.

[Billiegirl]

Could it possibly be that something is wrong with my vagina to make it less satisfying than his hand?

[Billiegirl]

I really tried to talk to him about it and he would get annoyed and shut me out and threaten to leave me. My self esteem is so low now. I really think it's because my vagina doesn't feel good inside and doesn't do its job the way it's supposed to.

[Opinion Owner]

No honey, it's not your vagina, it's him. He has some kind of unusual high sex drive. I'm sure it's not your vagina, don't believe that. It's him, not you.

[Anonymous]

Your situation is nothing compared to what a male pornstar said on a talk show.

[Whatever2929292]

Well he is your ex so...

[jshm2]

Nah, he was probably depressed.

[Billiegirl]

Why would that make him masturbate even when we had sex one to three times everyday?

[Awitt2001]

It’s possible he was addicted to watching porn.

[Billiegirl]

@Awitt2001 why would that make him depressed? Or why would it mean he's already depressed?

[TheFlak38]

Insecure bitches draining a man's life. Good for him. He deserves better.

[Billiegirl]

Yes, yes he fucking does. Hope the bitch actually satisfies him since I can't.

[justaskme555555]

your so sexy even when not having sex he gets hard from you and has to jerk off maybe.

[Billiegirl]

No he was always jerking off to porn? So what does that mean? Why wasn't I good enough?

[bananathunder]

he just has a really high sex drive... I have been like that before. it sucks

[Billiegirl]

I think my vagina just has a problem that makes it not feel very great and doesn't do its job.. :(

[bananathunder]

that is definitely not it

[Billiegirl]

I mean he obviously thinks his hands feel better/ satisfy him better than my vagina for some reason. I mean, hell, he even did it AFTER sex sometimes. Why else would he do that after hot sex unless he didn't get completely satisfied?

[goodgirlsteven]

he's a freak always needs more

[jjj101010]

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[Anonymous]

Sex and masturbation are not correlated.

Porn and sexual pleasure are not correlated.

These are two things women will never understand.

Masturbation and our happiness or satisfaction of you are not correlated.