Friends with benefits and female friends?

[Anonymous]

I saw my friends with benefits or say I guy I was seeing meeting with his best friend's girlfriend who he is also good friends with. With her or his other female friends, he's so affectionate, talkative etc. He gave her a big hug and was gentle with her while they were video calling his friend/her boyfriend. But when I went to see him at the bar, he was waiting outside for me when I texted him that I'm almost there , drinking a beer but he didn't come to hug me or anything. It was me who hugged him and we went inside.

He also only gives hugs till he needs something like sex etc and then stops when he gets it. Later on he told me he's not interested in a relationship so I blocked him. I also know that he was chasing another girl at his university whom he has not been successful in sleeping with and she's the main reason why he cuts off me because she's apparently his type and he wants her to ask him out again. So I don't get it. He leaves girls on read, is not open or friendly with me or other girls he's seeing but is very nice and affectionate with his female friends. How's this possible?

[Anonymous]

Friends with benefits means you just are available to him for sex and aren't allowed to pester him with all this other stuff.

[Asker]

The girl at his college or uni didn't have sex with him yet she got ghosted and he's still plotting schemes to get her in bed even though she has not seduced him and wanted to know him. Now what will you say?

[greycadillacs]

He views them differently than you. He views them as friends and friends with benefits as just someone to have sex with, no emotion

[Asker]

The girl at his college or uni didn't have sex with him yet she got ghosted and he's still plotting schemes to get her in bed even though she has not seduced him and wanted to know him. Now what will you say?

[greycadillacs]

He likes the thrill of the chase. He’s playing games with her to have sex with her, and view it as a conquest

[Asker]

Then how does he views women differently? He's doing the same with her too

[greycadillacs]

Well I don’t know him, I was just guessing based on the info I have