Girls, How do you get your partner to use toys and be kinky if she’s conservative? (Married)?

[Anonymous]

If your the submissive type and would love to use them on her, her tie me up, etc.

[missmels]

Have a conversation and let her know you want to explore more avenues in the bedroom

[Asker]

But how do u have the conversation? What do you say?

[missmels]

I mean it could be relatively straight forward. Perhaps not in the middle of other sex, but made after a fun date night and at a time you’re feeling chatty, just be upfront about how much you love them and everything you’re currently doing in the bedroom - and that you’d like to explore new things as well because you think it will pleasure you both and even strengthen your bond beyond what you even knew was possible. Of course you’d have to accept that she may not want to do everything right away so it might be a process of easing into exploring new things. But I would hope she’s somewhat receptive since your partners sexual needs are important (in my opinion) but you also want her to be comfortable/Consensual along the way

[missmels]

*maybe after a fun date night

[Marushka]

Conversation and communication is key