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Anyone ever thought about someone else during sex with your partner?

It happened last night, I wasn’t in the mood. However, when I want to he doesn’t, when he wants to I don’t. Very rarely are we on the same page. This night in particular I decided to engage in a position that I really like standing doggy, this position gives great friction and provides hella pleasure. I was hoping this would I get me engaged, you can’t ignore something that feels good yk? But while this was happening I let my mind wander, and being that I couldn’t see him and he couldn’t see me, I envisioned another man. I feel sick and guilty about it. We’ve been together over a year and this is the first time this has happened.
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  • It used to happen a lot, especially if we were in a darkly lit room and I couldn't see her.
    I learned that you can't really control it, but it's also not something your partner wants to hear about either.
    Sometimes my mind wanders back and forth between my partner, porn I've seen, or any other various sexual thoughts during sex. I wouldn't worry about it.

  • It's happened before, I had sex earlier that day with my non-mono partner. Later that evening I went on a date with someone I finally got to meet, and we had ended up at having sex. I did think about the rough sex episode earlier in the day, whereas this one was kind of sensual gentle-kissing-i-like-you sex.

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  • This is normal and probably happens to everyone. Sometimes sex is boring or you can't focus on them so the mind takes over and focuses on something else sexy.

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  • It's happened several times.

    • @mandyfire98 who was the guy or girl?

  • Definitly. When ever my wife is hyper turn on. . she whispers her favt hero or crush names in my ears.. as if she's visualizing him while we r doing sex.. n that moment of moaning is just wonderful from her.. almost as reaching orgasm

  • If it’s a consistent thing then you might have some underlying issues in your relationship but if it was just one time then it isn’t a big deal , but if you catch yourself doing it more and more then maybe he isn’t the guy for you

  • Well it is bad kind of but yeah it can't be helped. Just don't say it to him. And try not to do it again. Maybe you're not right for each other?

  • I think it’s pretty cute and absolutely normal to let your mind wander.

  • Is that man a celebrity? Or someone you know

  • i do it semi often

  • Happens sometimes. Don’t think about it much

  • Yeah, don't be too hard on yourself, sometimes it just happens

  • Standing doggy so not on your knees?

    • More like bent over a table or sink or something like that.

    • Oh ok I understand now ha

    • Haha. Follow me?

  • It happens. I just don’t say anything about it. Lol.

    • Did you feel guilty?

    • Always.

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