Is the reason so many women today can't cum from PIV sex with their long term boyfriends because they loosened their vaginas from sex with other guys?

I don’t get why so many women can’t cum from sex with most guys? Like is a guy fucking ur vagina and u rubbing ur clit really not enough to cum? Am I just waaay off here or is there something to my theory?
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  • There's just way more nerves in the clitoris than in the vagina. And the pleasurable spot that is in the vagina is one: slightly hard to reach with a penis, and two: part of the internal structure of the clitoris. I don't think it has anything to do with the vagina getting stretched out from too much sex, which I've heard science debunk as a thing at all time and time again. And I don't think it's a new thing. I think for as long as women have been women, there have been women who need clitoral stimulation to cum. It's just that only in modern day have women's orgasms been emphasized as important at all. Before that, nobody cared if the women felt good, so nobody knew nor cared what worked best for most women. Most women might not have even known, since masturbation was also demonized for so long.

    • I said all this in my op. And there are no studies at least that I can find to test if sex loosens a vagina or not.

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  • Vag is a muscle, can return to original shape after penetration. What you usually see in porn is a bit extreme as they use oversized toys, but in real life the shape of the vag has nothing to do with climaxing, you either can from penetration either can't. I never could

    • If they are abstinent for a period of time and if they don’t stretch it out too far sure but they will never ever be as tight as they were as a virgin and it’s not like many women are practicing abstinence so

    • @intothevoid666 I use the same size tampons as I did since I was a virgin... so unless you phallus is smaller than that of a normal sized tampon you shouldn't be so concerned.

    • @Subarugirl so women are born being able to shove 8 in dildos into their vagina? Stop avoiding this question

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  • A vagina can have sex with an typical size penis with about a 1.5 inch diameter and retain a tampon with about a half inch diameter. There are few "loose"vaginas.
    The problem seems to be that most guys can't last as long as women need them to last. About five minutes for guys and about twenty minutes for girls.
    The some positions are better for giving a woman an orgasm than others. Guys need to learn what works best with their gal.

  • Women are emotional. If they are not emotionally heighten in general “needy-attachment” and intimately warmed up whether by thought or deed THEN it’s like trying to get a water spigot to self-open.

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  • Lmao

    a Vagina does not work like that.

    is that what your wife told you?

    fuck me please get some sexual education

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • I usually do. 🎀

    • But have u taken a bunch a big dick a bunch of times and now are in a relationship with a guy with an average dick?

    • No.. my boyfriend is big enough…

    • Well ok then that doesn’t help answer my question.

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  • And this is why sex ed is so important. Good lord. It has nothing to do with having sex with bigger guys. If that were a thing no woman would ever be able to have sex after giving birth a single time. A percentage of women can orgasm from penetration alone. Most can not. That's just physiology. As far as "looseness" goes, age, child birth, and body variance will play far more a role in that than any guy's dick size.

    • I know I know ur not allowed to question feminist propaganda… despite countless men having experience with a woman feeling looser after being with a large dick and there being no studies on the topic it would just be ridiculous to even question it

    • Guess these doctors just have no idea what they are talking about huh
      https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/325890

    • There aren't studies? Shut the fuck up kid. A quick type into Google proves that wrong. Talk to actual doctors, not incels on 4chan. Anecdotal stories from insecure guys is not any kind of reliable evidence of anything.

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  • Not every woman can cum or cum via sex. Most need stimulation on the clit and or on the g-spot or both.

    • That’s what I said in my op?

  • "because they loosened their vaginas"
    Do you seriously think that the vagina is just a piece of elastic? I guess that makes sense, with how inadequate sex education in the US is.

  • No, it's not. That's just how their body responds. Or it could be because their lover is inconsiderate.

  • it's probably because they think their SO is unattractive.

    • Hmmmm ok ok that makes a lot of sense

  • It’s pathetic how many men believe that the vagina gets stretched out from having sex…

    • It’s pathetic how delusional u r about this fact. I have first hand experience with this. Ur wrong point blank.

    • Do your hamstrings get permanently stretched out and looser each time you use them? no... neither does the vagina. If you are referring to a small piece of skin that partially covers the entrance called the hymen, that isn't considered part of the vagina. If the girls you are having sex with are super tight that isn't a good sign hon... that means she is either uncomfortable or not aroused...

      "'It's pretty impossible for sex alone to permanently stretch out the vagina,' said Dr Metz."

      www.dailymail.co.uk/.../...ecologists-explain.html

    • Ur wrong I’m telling u. Yes muscle do stretch out too. U think most gymnasts were born being able to do the splits? Idgaf whatever feminist propaganda bullshit source u post. There are NO studies to date on this subject so don’t try to post some reference. Anyone can write those shitty articles. I have first hand experience with this. Virgins are very tight. Girls who regularly shove 8 in dildos in their vaginas are very loose. This really shouldn’t surprise anyone. U think girls were just born being able to shove 8in dildos inside them? Fuck no.

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  • Yes you're way off.

  • Can't see how she could since I'm her only sexual partner.

  • Ya I can't give my wife one but other guys have

  • LOL dude your whole question screams "Tell me you dont know how girls basic anatomy works without telling me you dont know how girls basic anatomy works" Not kidding man, take a sex education class.