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Why do guys do this with their dicks?

Like after they’re finished having sex with you and as soon as they pull their dick back out after they cum, they slap it on your vagina several times. It’s something I’ve noticed guys do a lot but when I ask why, they say they don’t know. There has to be a reason right?
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Judging by these answers, it seems people on here don’t really know either. It’s not a big deal. It was just something I notice that my analytical mind wonders about. Lol
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Most Helpful Guys

  • A good question I must say because sometimes I did that also, but never wondered why. Neither do I know the answer, but symbolically to squeeze the last drops? Or to confirm they did their job? Maybe a psy knows a possible answer.

    Their is maybe a similarity in that behaviour with cats taking out a piece of their food out of a bowl and shake their head quickly as if in order to shake of dirt. Same with dogs scratching with their hind legs after having peed, even if clearly useless because there's no earth on the side walk...

  • I am guessing one of two things.
    1- They have seen it in porn.
    2- Men are used to shaking their penis off after peeing. I would suspect it is habit from that. Something comes out of the penis, you feel like you have to shake it off. Semen likes to leak out after ejaculation, so to me, this seems like the more obvious reason why some men would do this.

    • #2 does make sense when I think about it. I’ve had guys wipe the tip on me after sex and it leaves a little bit of wetness on my skin. This could just be another way of doing that. Hmmm.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Not every guy does, most of them don't. I think the ones who do it watched too much porn

  • I thought its because we both like it. Also, maybe to drop cum if any left on him?

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  • It feels good. After you cum, your dick gets kind of numb and slapping it against the pussy just kinda feels nice.

    There's also something so hot about doing that right after you fucked someone. It's kinda like you're marking your territory or something. It just feels right.

  • Guys r guys.

    • Why did I read that as toy's r us.

    • Nice, can't even spell properly.

    • @SlothySlob what’s that.

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  • "Wiping the meat, on the curtains" it's usually called.

    For some it's getting those last few dregs of cum out. For others it's just getting a few last rubs of pussy. Either way, it's not something you need worry about.

  • I don't know as I've never done that.

  • I've never done it but, my guess would be that he's making a very poor attempt at trying to make you cum, too by slapping your clit. I'm sure that can make you cum but not if it's just a couple of slaps and that's it!

  • Never did that. Just like cuddle and hug the girl. Would be nice if the dick would remain in her vagina longer.

  • I've done it before penetration but never after.
    The sudden stimulation sometimes causes the veins to expand, thus enhancing the erection. Afterwards I'm just trying to catch my breath.

  • probably cause they saw that in porn to be honest xD

  • It is something men can't ignore it and like if you take oil from something then you have to beat at least 2 times so that you make sure that oil should not be drop any where else but on that perticular vessel in which you stores your oil so it is just like dick when our load is out our dick then some drop is still pouring out from dick so for that reason they tap dick on vagina and it make them happy.

  • There's nothing wrong with having an analytical mind. Rather than to assume that no one knows, it may help to see men's sexual interests as a spectrum. Not all men enjoy the same things, and that's alright. As for what you described, it's a common act and may have its roots in BDSM D/s whether more from the power/domination/control aspect or from the S&M perspective of him beating your vulva with his penis.

  • That's a turn on for some guys.

  • No, there does not have to be a reason to everything.
    I don't know why I do, I've always have.

    • Fair enough. I just thought maybe it felt good for him or maybe he thought it felt good for me. I don’t know. I’ll just disregard it and let him slap it if he wants. Lol

    • Most likely, it feels good for him and hopefully doesn't hurt you.

    • No it doesn’t hurt. I’m talking about gently slapping it. They do it on my butt sometimes too if we’re in that position. If it feels good for him then I’m good with it.

  • Lol. I dont. I just get done and lay down.

  • Mine just shrivels up so never been able to do this lol,,,

  • Because we just love to slap your pussy with dick.

  • How many dicks have you had?

    • Enough to recognize a pattern in more than 1 guy.

    • So it seems.

    • I’m sure you’re not a virginal entity either.

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  • Not every guy slaps his dick on a vagina. I just pull out and go to the toilet.

  • To be perfectly honest I have never done that, I just have this overwhelming sense to urinate after cumming twice inside your throat or womb.

  • Gotta get every drop in our cup dumpsters

    • @oddbeme. Winning answer.

    • @KrakenAttackin cnat even spell cum correctly when typing fast.

    • @oddbeme. No worries, I was picking up what you were putting down.

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  • I don’t slap it I just kinda do a hotdog thing

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