Do women even do anything in bed?

I'm asking this because I've seen soooo many tik tok and instagram posts of women saying how "bad" men are in bed as if they are always the main culprit. y'all be laying there like an out of bounds gmod character not telling us what y'all want lol. Starfish laying asses.
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  • Yes. I do I’m an active participant and I do a lot in bed. But I do think it’s fuckin weird when women don’t do anything in bed or don’t speak up if it doesn’t feel good. No one is gonna read your mind and just know how to make you cum. I’ve seen hundreds in comments laugh together at how “bad at sex men are” like ok he’s bad but tell him how to be better? When my friend told me this guy she slept with didn’t touch her clit at all, she expected me to laugh with her at how bad at sex dude was. But nah I told her the one who looks stupid is you for not speaking up. I thought it was common sense to advocate for your own pleasure and make sure you’re communicating. I feel bad for them how are you not making sure it feels good..

    • EXACTLY. THANK YOU. I would argue with some women about this and they would respond with "well he should know how to please a woman." Like mam, every woman is different lol.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Well…we’re the one’s being penetrated so the guy is usually doing most of the physical work (unless I’m on top). Our part is more like moving our hips in time with his thrusts, kissing, touching and dirty talk.

    • Which is better for you, going on top or laying down cause I find doing nothing to be less exciting tbh.

    • I prefer to be lying down. I kind of feel self-conscious when I’m on top like he’s staring at me the whole time. I’d rather he be on top. I’ll try to make it as good as I can by moving my hips and moaning and stuff. I’ll run my fingertips along his back and stuff like that but he’s doing the physical part. Lol

Most Helpful Guys

  • If that's been your experience, you need to start having sex with a better class of women. The ones who are sexually worth a damn can and will be VERY active.

    They may need some instruction, though; remember that nobody's born knowing this stuff.

    • I know that but some of them act as if I should know what they want. Everyone has different needs in bed.

    • Then tark to them about it. If you're close enough to be having sex, youshould be close enough to talk hotestly.

  • What happened to you? Did your mom drop you when you were a kid? You're insulting retarded people with statements like this.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Have you ever actually had sex?

    • Yes. Why u asking

  • Yes we do!…. I’m sure some girls may be less of a participant. But I think if the guy is doing it right I’m tot into him.

    • You guy definitely has a keeper. I've had women who are as active as I am but I've also had ones who did nothing which made sex boring asf.

    • I can imagine

  • Same here.

    And of course it was my fault

  • Yes, they do something in bed; sleep. Isn't that enough?

  • TikTok is the place to go for sexual advice. The Chinese government is laughing at us.

  • As is with everything else... women generally want men to do all the work and then complain about it.

  • Not only do women not do most of the work in bed, they also expect the man to be responsible for both his own pleasure and hers. It's called female entitlement.

  • Sometimes I just lay there and let him do his business but most of the time I'm as active as he is.

    • Is sex better if you're active?

  • You obviously have never had sex, or at least not good sex.

    • And care to explain why you claim I never had sex?