Is it possible getting ptsd from this?

[Anonymous]

Two weeks ago was gonna be my first time having sex but something really disgusting happened. As I pulled her underwear down to go down on her, I immediately was introduced to the most putrid smelling oder I have ever smelled. It was indescribable. I literally threw up on her bed. I kinda felt bad since she cried and I made a mess in her room but I still can't shake off that smell. I used to be looking forward to sex, but now I'm staying clear from it as that moment forever changed the way i see a vagina.

I'm gagging thinking about it.

[Flower7]

Hopefully that wasn’t about to be her first time also. If so , I think her PTSD would be a bit worse than yours.

[Asker]

You're telling me that having someone puke on her bed (not even her) is more traumatic then smelling something so goddamn putrid that I never knew something can smell so bad enough to make me want to vomit. I am swearing on everything that what I smelled is absolutely fucking horrifying. I feel like spraying perfume up my nose just thinking about it.

[Flower7]

It does sound awful for you and I hate that it happened to you, especially during your very first encounter with a vagina. Hopefully your next time will be better and this won’t ruin everything for you. It’s not the puking itself that I feel would be bad for her. It would be traumatic to her self-esteem to know that the guy she tried to have sex with was that disgusted by her. It could forever change the way she feels about being intimate with anyone.

[Asker]

Fair point. I did say I felt bad but tbh she really should've just declined because I went to her for sex. Now if you'll excuse me, I will be sniffing toothpaste.

[Flower7]

Good luck, I really really hope your next time will be better!

[Bardish]

Sorry that happened, but don't let it deter you. Going down on a woman is a good time for everyone. As someone else mentioned, a shower together beforehand is great. Serves up some foreplay and gets everyone freshened up. Hygiene is a two way street. She don't want to put a stinky dong in her mouth either.

[SlothySlob]

It would be ptsd if you were constantly subjected to it. What you're describing is a kid saying he hates broccoli because he had to eat some once.

Next time have a shower together before you decide to go down on someone.