Boyfriend nagged me into a threesome with another guy but mad?

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The other guy was bigger, lasted longer and gave me my first orgasm through penetration and I squirted multiple times. While he finished quickly and watched. He's also making racist remarks about the other guy.

ohshee · Accepted Answer

This is why guys should really think before they act

When I was in my twenties I used to go to a bar after work with all the guys I worked with if we were single we were single if we had girlfriends our girlfriends would meet us down there one night after work I was at the bar just getting ready to leave I walked into the bathroom and some guy walked in that for me I've seen him in there hundred times I was doing and asked me if he could ask me a few questions I said sure he wanted to know if I would take his wife home and then he wanted to explain I finished in the bathroom wash my has walked outside and he said he'd meet me at my table he sat down we talked for a few minutes and then he had his wife come over I agree to do what he wanted me to do and that was basically take his wife home and have sex with her we did this for about a month but I had to stop because she was telling me stories about him giving her a hard time because she would do and say things to me that she didn't do or say to him she told me that she would give her an orgasm every once in awhile and every time that we have sex I would give her two or three and that with me she was very vocal I mean very vocal and with him not very vocal whatsoever it started to create a problem between the both of them so I thought it would be best if I just stop going over there and having sex with her altogether we did I have a couple other times after that at my house but I just said we had to end it

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

Apparently, this is quite often the outcome of having a threesome.

1. You shouldn't agree to something sexual just to make him happy if you really don't want to do it.

2. Some fantasies - maybe most fantasies - should remain as just fantasies and it is a mistake to try to make them actually happen.

3. Do you want to remain with your current boyfriend? Is he a prospect for LTR?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It was dumb of him to even suggest that. Now he has to deal with the consequences. I’m glad you got to experience squirting and vaginal orgasm for the first time.

Daniela1982 · Accepted Answer

Good story. I wouldn't write romance novels if I were you though.

RobT312 · Answer

Sounds like a horrible experience

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

Thanks for sharing that gem of a story, but was there a question you wished to ask?

Bardish · Answer

The only blame here is on him. Strike 1: He nagged you into it. Strike 2: Dude bit off more than he could chew. Strike 3: Blames everyone else for his own fuck up. This is karma in action.

Glad you had a great time with something you didn't want to do from the start.

Give him maybe a day. If he doesn't knock it off, call him out. If that doesn't get him to reassess, dump his ass because he's shown you some very important things about who he really is

boggboss · Answer

Sounds like u picked a retard

TenkRealist · Answer

That's why you don't get into that shit. The relationship now will never be the same. You dug your own grave.

Fireguy17 · Answer

Another case of be careful of what you ask for.
He asked or pushed you into doing that, you enjoyed it and now he is butt hurt about it.
Now he is feeling inadequate about himself.
His problem, not yours.
Surprisingly this happens a lot after a 3 way.
If he can't get over it, then it is time to move on.