Why have unprotected sex, if you are not ready or willing to take care of child 🤔? Why have unprotected sex and not expect consequences 🤣?

[JoyGirl]

I have seen some reels, as well as Tik Toks were women are enjoy a man’s 🍆 (raw), even though he is telling her to get off, because he is about to cum. She keeps riding and smiling/laughing…

I don’t understand the logic.

This came to mind…

Women want to talk about getting an abortion. You weren’t thinking about the consequence’s when you were riding the dude raw? Girl, pls… 😂
Get that 🍆, and child support. Tf… 😂
If he is financially unstable and unfit to pay child support, you better figure something out. 😂

Now, forget the woman, let’s talk about the man. She is on your 🍆, you feel like your about to bust a load, and you don’t push her off? BOIIII…AHAHAHAHAHA…you asked for the child support bills…BAHAHAHAHA 🤣🤣🤣

I do not care about the excuse some of you are going to bring up.
”Omg, the feeling is so pleasurable, it is hard to stop.” There is something called self-control…

Don’t ride him raw is your are not ready to take care of a child. 🙄


So, what are ya thoughts? Why have unprotected sex and not expect consequences? 😂

**This post does not give a clear opinion about how I feel about abortion, so please move along to the next question if you get offended. 😁**

[razelove]

Oh, that's simple, for one night stands I truly believe in no strings attached. I do not give my real name, and if there are any pictures or videos, I'm calling it off. I'm a guy, I just have to not fish in the pond I live in, while giving a fake name, and never having an intersection on any social media of the same picture.

I did that in the past, and who knows what happened to them, I just know I had to get a lot of penicillin for STDs. I do agree that the logic is a little off, busting in a girl, as yourself, without verifying in some way that she's on birth control, if you don't want kids. I also think there would be less abortions if abortion was kept legal, but child support was made optional, where as in the event that a state makes abortion illegal, child support is mandatory.

Women would be a lot more about those condoms and the pill. Guys would be the ones not wanting to pull out if the child support was optional in NY, CA and what not. It's your body, your choice, right? Yet you get imprisoned if you don't pay child support for a kid you didn't choose to have. Talking about casual relationships here, not marriage.

I obviously didn't give my wife a fake name, or any of my girlfriends and plan on running away from them when/if I got them pregnant.

I also didn't know tik tok promoted videos in the theme of impregnation fetish. That's different for "social media", seems more like something you'd find on a porn site.

[RuthlessAggression]

They think they're invincible. That they can't get pregnant. That's why it's imperative that if he's not going to wear the condom, she needs to at least be on the pill or something similar

[JoyGirl]

Ikr! 🤦🏾‍♀️

[CrazyGirl2]

First, to answer you… unbelievable stupidity on behalf of BOTH parties! She was stupid because God knows what diseases he may/could have? Also unbelievably stupid on the guys behalf, because not only God knows what diseases she may have, but IF she gets pregnant, he’s on the hook for 18-26yrs of child support (depending on state) as in some states, men can be on the hook for child support all the way through college up to the age of 26! So yes… unbelievably stupid! Also, how tiny was this guy, as I’ve never personally met a guy who couldn’t get his dick out of a woman if he actually wanted it out!

[DermalPunch]

Please louder for those in the back.

[yucychan]

Because people are stupid. They do things at the heat of the moment and don't think of the consequences. Or worse still, thinking "Nah, I won't be that unlucky. It won't happen to me."
And then cry buckets when shit hits the fan.
Stupidism.

[Oigit]

Because women can be just as dumb about sex as men can. Also both sexes are capable of trying to trap a partner in a relationship by having a child.

[OlderAndWiser]

Why have unprotected sex, if you are not ready or willing to take care of child? Because my girlfriend is 58 years old.

[ChrisMaster69]

Unprotected sex is without using a form of contraception.

for a guy it’s a condom.

for a girl it’s usually combination pill, a lot of whom start it young due to acne, bad periods etc.

early stages of a relationship, yeah guys wears a condom, however once both sex health tested and it’s a proper relationship, then it’s girl on combination pill.

people do get pregnant when on the pill, stomach bugs being a big reason why.

now if you are having unprotected sex, which is not using a form of contraception, then yes you can expect that pregnancy is a high risk.

Types of Contraception - only one required really.

caps or diaphragms
combined pill
condoms
contraceptive implant
contraceptive injection
contraceptive patch
female condoms
IUD (intrauterine device or coil)
IUS (intrauterine system or hormonal coil)
natural family planning (fertility awareness)
progestogen-only pill
vaginal ring

https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/contraception/

[Sour-rose]

What consequences? Only thing on a horny mofo's mind is the "good stuff"

Consequences will be when little georgie is 5 and screaming about wanting cupcakes. :)

[JoyGirl]

LMAO 🤣

[dustybiker]

“It won’t happen to me.”

[Apple1996]

Its cause the risk is fun and in the moment it's easy to be careless about not pulling out/hoping off in time especially if it's feeling really good.

[Berethor]

Raw feels better, you might ask why have sex at all if not ready for the consequences.

[Smashingdoozy]

I had protected sex. I was also told it was very unlikely for me to get pregnant due to my endometriosis. But alas I found myself pregnant. I know pregnancy is a consequence of sex. But I didn't plan on getting pregnant. Just like getting in a car crash is a consequence of getting in a car. I never plan on getting in a car crash (well actually I did purposefully do that once but anyways).

You can't expect people to just not have sex. We're horny humans

[crossdressingrihno]

So you don't have a roadside safety kit and insurance?

[crossdressingrihno]

And people can't be expected to have condoms and anti-conceptives?

[Smashingdoozy]

@crossdressingrihno having insurance doesn't mean you are less likely to get into a crash. You just pay less to fix the damages. Why would you take "anti-conceptives" (I assume you mean plan b) if you had safe sex?

[GlassTop]

You couldn’t have been very protected if you got pregnant. It’s actually pretty difficult to get pregnant.

[Smashingdoozy]

@GlassTop yeah it is. But it happens. I was on the pill and I took it every single day at the same time without fail. Nothing except abstinence is 100% effective. I got really unlucky, as many people do.

[JoyGirl]

Did you use a condom, tho? 😏

[Smashingdoozy]

No, my partner and I use to use a combination of the pill and pull out method ☺️ shit happens.

[JoyGirl]

🚪🚶🏾‍♀️

[GlassTop]

Maybe try implant or depo shot. Pills require perfect timing and consistency. Pull out method is actually very consistent, so if you are doing both and still got pregnant it’s most likely human error.

[Smashingdoozy]

@GlassTop like I said I took it on time every day. I have an IUD now. But again nothing is 100% effective. And again, shit happens. Went 10 years without any scares. I think I'm doing everything I can.

[crossdressingrihno]

Anti-controceptives are birth control

[Smashingdoozy]

@crossdressingrihno conceptives*? Like I said I was on the pill.

[crossdressingrihno]

I was arguing against your point not your life choices

[crossdressingrihno]

Also I did mention condoms too

[crossdressingrihno]

Because for maximum safety you would use both because like you mentioned earlier birth control can fail. Murphy's law check all your bases and check them all again because if it can go wrong it might go wrong and screw over your day incredibly bad

[Smashingdoozy]

@crossdressingrihno if you read what I said you would see I used the pull out method and the pill. The chances of getting pregnant were 1 in a million. You made no valid argument against my point.

[crossdressingrihno]

Did you read the part above all that though?

[crossdressingrihno]

About the car

[crossdressingrihno]

And did you fully read the question

[crossdressingrihno]

Because all these things are factors into what I said

[crossdressingrihno]

Because the question is about unprotected sex an not abortion

[Smashingdoozy]

@crossdressingrihno yeah I did. Hence why I responded to you. This question is clearly taking a dig at abortion because for some reason people seem to think that the only way to get pregnant is to have unprotected sex. Which is obviously not the case considering just over half of pregnancies that end in abortion happened while having protected sex.

[crossdressingrihno]

Oh this is like earlier where are you "Read between the lines" of one of my statements sparked the large-ass argument just for me to shoot down your "keen observation"

[crossdressingrihno]

The question was about a specific group of instances. This isn't about abortion the author said so herself

[crossdressingrihno]

I have seen some reels, as well as Tik Toks were women are enjoy a man’s 🍆 (raw), even though he is telling her to get off, because he is about to cum. She keeps riding and smiling/laughing… Now, forget the woman, let’s talk about the man. She is on your 🍆, you feel like your about to bust a load, and you don’t push her off? BOIIII…AHAHAHAHAHA…you asked for the child support bills…BAHAHAHAHA 🤣🤣🤣 I do not care about the excuse some of you are going to bring up. ”Omg, the feeling is so pleasurable, it is hard to stop.” There is something called self-control… Don’t ride him raw is your are not ready to take care of a child. 🙄 So, what are ya thoughts? Why have unprotected sex and not expect consequences? 😂

[crossdressingrihno]

I got bored of deleti stuff halfway through

[crossdressingrihno]

Abortion is brought up a lot the topic is about unprotected sex and consequences

[Smashingdoozy]

@crossdressingrihno I mean yeah having unprotected sex is obviously higher risk to get pregnant. You should take precautions.

[crossdressingrihno]

There now you're getting closer to the actual question

[crossdressingrihno]

The question is why are these tick tockers having unprotected sex and expecting not to have consequences

[Smashingdoozy]

@crossdressingrihno I don't know what you're talking about TikTok for. If you're seeing these things you obviously like it 🤨. Some people are irresponsible, yes. Why do they do it? Fuck knows, maybe they were dropped on their head as a kid.

[crossdressingrihno]

Read her question again it's literally about tick tock

[crossdressingrihno]

Just read the first paragraph again

[Smashingdoozy]

@crossdressingrihno yes I meant if she is seeing these things she clearly likes it/ doesn't really have an issue with it. I don't see these videos. Straight TikTok seems like a scary place.

[crossdressingrihno]

People can find porn hot without agreeing that you should go raw dog a stranger on the subway despite the fact that they're watching a pornography of someone raw dogging a stranger publicly on a Subway

[Smashingdoozy]

@crossdressingrihno well considering that 1 TikTok doesn't allow sexual content and 2 it shows you videos based on an algorithm catered to you. Whatever you interact with it will show you more.

[crossdressingrihno]

TikTok doesn't "allow" child predators either but it's still full of thme

[crossdressingrihno]

Them

[Whatever2929292]

I don't think they are very smart people... That is why. Glad to see someone on this site who has some common sense

[Chiarac2003]

I won’t have him cum in me around my ovulation time. 🎀

[NathanDavis]

simply put... we're stupid (=

and I am generalizing here, yes... lol

[DJaQueef]

Never ever watch Tik-Tok or get any advice from those morons.

[WhitneySnow]

I agree with you

[Sixgunsound]

Nine months worth of being fawned over and taken care of and made to eat better than you have or will for the rest of your life for a 26 year paycheck? Is this really even a serious question?

[Agape93]

For the enjoyment, as its naturally meant to be. Not every ejaculation deserves a name, as George Carlin put it. That's why abortion exists, incase of accidents, rapes or what have you. Handle the problem as you see fit, and enjoy yourself as you see fit.

[AviatorTom]

If neither partner wants this having sex to result in pregnancy, the guy should be wearing a condom. Him pulling out, or her getting off him before he cums, is risky... the timing may not work, and there may already be sperm in his precum to get her pregnant.

[alice55]

They can get abortion so they aren't careful, they don't care about the consequence cause they know they won't have to face it.

[Fireguy17]

For the minute or so it takes to wrap that thing, or be on some form of birth control, why subject yourself to the consequences of what could happen.
1 strong swimmer and its happy mother's and fathers day to the both of you.

[anon1903]

You're right. It's incredibly stupid.

Even as somebody pro abortion, I wouldn't support riding them raw when clearly you don't want a kid.

With that being said, if it ever happened to me... Aye, I'd have an alternative.