Should I stay friends with a girl I love?
I'm experienced and good in bed and I've had situationships in the past where women want to keep seeing me for sex but I ended it when they admit they don't see as having any potential for something serious down the line.
I thought it was all going well until Tue evening when she was staying over at mine. In fact I was thinking of asking her to be my girlfriend and make it official once we reach the 2 month mark. But she said outright that it seems I'm much more into her than she is into me and that she is still figuring us out and where we're at. And she said she finds it off-putting when someone likes her more than she likes them. She herself said that she has some autism traits, being blunt is one of them.
This is where it went downhill. We had been drinking wine. I ask her how much she does like me at this point. She literally pauses for almost a minute! Opening her mouth like she is about to speak and then closing it. Like she is really thinking hard about how to phrase things. Then says she isn't comfortable being made to answer. So I don't push her and tell her we can just watch TV and she doesn't need to answer.
After one episode of silence she turns to me and says "I like you" but doesn't want to talk or engage further. We have sex, with me just focusing on her so she reaches orgasm, and we go to sleep.
The next day once she leaves for work she messages saying she doesn't see us moving to a relationship and working as a couple and wants to just be friends. She wants to go to see a play with me on Friday still and says she really likes my company.
I said yes as I can't let her go. And is there hope that I can change her mind? Or should I cut her off
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