Girls, would you dump a guy you've been dating for about a month and really liked if he had a strange yet harmless fetish?

A friend I work with has been dating a guy for about a month and really likes him. A couple days ago she was telling me and another co-worker that she found out he has a "weird foot thing". She said when they were laying in bed, he put his head at the foot of the bed to "watch" TV and was kind of massaging her feet, then started kissing them and smelling them. She pulled them away and told him to stop and is actually thinking about dumping him. Before you ask, I've been friends with her for years and she's very comfortable talking about things like this. I thought it was kind of funny and not worth breaking up over. She said she would never accept a guy that does things with her feet. She said it's basically up to him and whether he can respect her not liking it. So, would any of you accept it or is it something you would break up over?
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  • I'm not a girl, nor am I into feet, but I REALLY don't get why foot fetishists are so reviled. I mean, it's weird, yeah, but you're talking about a kink that can be indulged even in public, one that ioesn't require a lot of effort on your part, one that can be used easily for teasing purposes (I'd imagine that actually jerking a guy off with your feet would be tricky, but you can hint at it, or gently slide your foot up his inner thigh and win yourself some points that way.

    It also sets you up for frequent foot rubs and encourages him to buy you shoes. What's the problem?

    • That is kind of what I said. I said it's painless, easy to indulge in and harmless. She was obsessed with it being "weird".

    • A pity. Some people are just like that, though.

  • I would have a hard time dating a girl that I couldn't touch her feet

    • Would you actually continue dating her? I actually broke up with a girl that wouldn't let me go down on her. I dated her for almost 6 months, thinking she would eventually feel comfortable enough but she showed no signs of changing.

    • I would probably break up with her. Also I would break up with a girl if I could go down on her

    • What about a girl who won't give oral

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  • He should dump her for being such a boring person. My boyfriend loves giving me pedicures, and much more than that. I feel lucky.

    • Aww, I polished my wife's toes a couple times. It was actually fun, she said I can pick the color if I paint them.

    • My boyfriend once did a rainbow theme. 10 different colors. I loved it. One day he came home with this. I asked what it was for, and he just smiled.
      Girls, would you dump a guy you've been dating for about a month and really liked if he had a strange yet harmless fetish?

    • You have a cool relationship! He sounds like a great guy!

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  • As long as it is harmless then I don’t mind, I’ve known guys with pretty harmless and weird ones, it doesn’t bother me that much

    • That's also what I told her. Harmless and easy!

    • If you want I can tell you more about it in a chat if you want? :o

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  • I'd be open to try something but if he started kissing and sniffing my feet i'd be creeped out! If he wasn't creepy and i had a pedicure i'd try a footjob maybe. They look dificult and tiring tho. What's so special about a girl's feet anyway?

    • I guess any part of a woman's body can be sexy. Girls do tend to have small dainty feet and for the most part, take care of them but to obsess over them to the point of sniffing and kissing, I couldn't tell you. I'm more of an ass man. Don't judge me! Lol

    • I mean i get that we get pedicures to make em look good or whatever but kissing and sniffing is weird af. To each their own i try to be open but i can only be so open. I can see the pleasure a footjob might bring i guess, but my abs won't last a minute lol

  • Depends on how weird and if I thought it was going to be a problem for him if I didn't participate in it with him.

    • That's kind of her position. More the, "if he can't deal with me not indulging him, it's over".

  • My sister hates feet, so she probably would.

  • This chick sounds like a prude.

  • As long as I don't deal with urine, fecal matter, anal or get slapped or hit in the face I'm down with anything. So no I wouldn't dump a guy over that.

    • And she was telling me how much she liked him just 2,3 days earlier. Like I told another opiner, I told her it's painless, easy to indulge in and harmless but she just can get over it being "weird".

    • *can't*

    • Too bad for her. He sounds like fun. She should find someone more tame.

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